Acts 20:38: Value spiritual leaders?
How does Acts 20:38 encourage us to cherish spiritual leaders in our lives?

The Scene in Acts 20:38

“ ‘They were especially grieved by what he had said, that they would never see his face again. Then they accompanied him to the ship.’ ” (Acts 20:38)

• Paul’s Ephesian friends weep, embrace, and walk him to the dock.

• Their pain shows how deeply a faithful shepherd can root himself in the hearts of God’s people.


Why Their Grief Teaches Us to Value Leaders

• Sincere sorrow reveals sincere love—if Paul’s departure hurts, his ministry mattered.

• Their public display tells the whole church that honoring leaders isn’t private preference; it’s a shared conviction.

• The moment underscores time’s brevity; we cherish leaders now because we may not always have them.


Ways to Cherish the Shepherds God Gives Us

• Speak gratitude often—let leaders hear what God has done through them (Philippians 1:3-5).

• Stand with them physically and practically, just as the Ephesians accompanied Paul to the ship.

• Protect their reputation; refuse gossip and defend their character (1 Timothy 5:19).

• Provide for their needs—“The elders who lead well are worthy of double honor” (1 Timothy 5:17).

• Pray for them by name, asking the Lord to keep them bold, pure, and joyful (Ephesians 6:19-20).


Scriptural Reasons to Guard and Support Them

1 Thessalonians 5:12-13—“acknowledge those who labor among you… regard them very highly in love.”

Hebrews 13:17—“they are keeping watch over your souls as those who will give an account.”

2 Timothy 4:7-8—leaders who finish well receive “the crown of righteousness”; helping them finish is kingdom work.


Living It Out This Week

• Write a brief note or text affirming a specific way your pastor has blessed you.

• Set aside a portion of this week’s income for an unannounced gift to a ministry family.

• Invite a leader for a meal, listen more than you talk, and send them away encouraged.

• Share Acts 20:38 with your small group, and together plan one tangible act of honor.

What other biblical examples show deep bonds among believers like in Acts 20:38?
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