How can Acts 25:16 guide us in resolving conflicts within the church? Setting the Scene Paul stood before the Roman governor Festus. The Jews wanted an immediate verdict, but Festus held to the Roman commitment to hear both sides first. That moment crystallizes a timeless principle for church life today. Core Principle: Due Process “not the custom of the Romans to hand over any man before he has faced his accusers” (Acts 25:16) God values orderly justice. Rushing to judgment—whether in a courtroom or a church hallway—contradicts His character. Practical Steps for Peacemaking • Slow down and gather facts before reacting. • Give each person a safe setting to share without interruption. • Encourage direct, private conversation first (see Matthew 18:15). • Involve impartial witnesses only when personal dialogue fails. • Keep leadership informed, but do not weaponize authority. • Aim for restoration, not victory—unity matters more than “winning.” • Record agreements and next steps so memories don’t blur. • Pray separately for softened hearts, then reconvene if needed. Scriptural Reinforcement • “If your brother sins against you, go and confront him privately” (Matthew 18:15). • “He who answers a matter before he hears it—this is folly and disgrace to him” (Proverbs 18:13). • “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger” (James 1:19). • “A matter must be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses” (Deuteronomy 19:15). Blessings of Obedience • Justice prevails over gossip, preserving credibility. • Offended parties feel heard, easing resentment. • The watching world sees a family that handles conflict differently. • Most of all, Christ’s reputation is protected as His body models His righteousness. |
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