Apply Abner's example to our leadership?
How can we apply Abner's example to our own leadership responsibilities?

Setting the Scene

Abner, Saul’s long-time general, knows David has been anointed by the LORD (1 Samuel 16:13; 24:20). Yet in 2 Samuel 2:8 he acts otherwise:

“Meanwhile, Abner son of Ner, commander of Saul’s army, had taken Ish-bosheth son of Saul, and he brought him across to Mahanaim.”


Leadership Pitfalls Displayed by Abner

• Allowing personal loyalty to eclipse divine revelation

• Protecting position and reputation over pursuing righteousness

• Using influence to preserve a fading system instead of advancing God’s known plan

• Creating division among God’s people by elevating an alternative authority

• Ignoring clear prophetic guidance already given (1 Samuel 13:14; 15:28; 2 Samuel 3:9–10)


Positive Takeaways

• Initiative and organizational skill: Abner swiftly gathers tribes, showing decisiveness

• Courage under pressure: he risks backlash to install a leader he believes in

• Strategic thinking: relocating the throne to Mahanaim, a defensible site east of the Jordan


Action Steps for Today’s Leaders

1. Yield ambition to God’s declared will

– “Trust in the LORD with all your heart… He will make your paths straight.” (Proverbs 3:5-6)

2. Evaluate loyalties by Scripture

– “We must obey God rather than men.” (Acts 5:29)

3. Guard unity among believers

– “Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.” (Ephesians 4:3)

4. Use influence to advance God’s kingdom, not a personal kingdom

– “Whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant.” (Matthew 20:26)

5. Finish well—course-correct quickly when convicted

– Abner eventually aligns with David (2 Samuel 3:12-21); leaders today should repent sooner, not later


Other Scriptures to Keep in View

Romans 13:1 — God appoints legitimate authority

Proverbs 16:2 — “All a man’s ways are pure in his own eyes, but his motives are weighed by the LORD.”

James 4:17 — Knowing the right thing yet failing to do it is sin

What role does obedience play in Abner's actions in 2 Samuel 2:8?
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