How can we apply Elihu's example of patience in our daily conversations? Seeing Elihu’s Patience Job 32:11 – “Behold, I waited for your words; I listened to your reasonings while you searched out words.” Why Elihu Chose to Wait - He honored the order of the discussion, allowing the older men to finish (vv. 4–7). - He wanted to hear the whole matter before offering counsel (Proverbs 18:13). - He trusted that truth would surface if he listened attentively (Proverbs 15:28). Daily Lessons for Our Conversations - Listen first, speak later (James 1:19). - Give others freedom to “search out words” without rushing them. - Hold back emotional reactions until the facts are clear (Proverbs 17:27). - Measure every reply against Scripture before voicing it. - Remember there is “a time to be silent and a time to speak” (Ecclesiastes 3:7). Practical Ways to Cultivate Elihu-Like Patience 1. Pause three heartbeats before answering; pray silently in that pause. 2. Keep a notepad (mental or literal) to jot key points while others talk, so you don’t interrupt. 3. Ask clarifying questions—“Help me understand…”—instead of assuming motives. 4. Memorize verses on patient speech (e.g., Colossians 4:6; Ephesians 4:29). 5. Invite the Holy Spirit to bear His fruit of patience in you (Galatians 5:22) each morning. Blessings That Flow from Patient Listening - Better discernment and fewer careless words (Proverbs 10:19). - Deeper relationships built on respect and trust. - Words that refresh like “apples of gold in settings of silver” (Proverbs 25:11). - Conversations that honor Christ and edify others. A Final Encouragement When we mirror Elihu’s restraint, we point people to the God “who is slow to anger and rich in love” (Psalm 145:8). By waiting for others’ words, we make room for God’s Word to shine through ours. |
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