How can we apply Paul's example of sacrificial love in our relationships? Paul’s Mindset in 2 Corinthians 12:14 “Behold, for the third time I am ready to come to you, and I will not be a burden, because I do not want your possessions but you yourselves. For children should not have to save up for their parents, but parents for their children.” What We See in Paul • He comes willingly—“for the third time I am ready.” • He refuses to exploit—“I will not be a burden.” • He desires people, not profit—“I do not want your possessions but you yourselves.” • He takes the parent’s role—“parents [provide] for their children.” Core Principles of Sacrificial Love • Availability over convenience (2 Timothy 4:2). • Generosity without strings (Acts 20:35). • Valuing people above things (Philippians 2:3–4). • Spiritual parenting—taking responsibility for another’s growth (1 Thessalonians 2:7–8). • Planning ahead to give, not to take (Romans 12:13). Putting It into Practice Give Time – Schedule margin so you can “be ready” like Paul. – Choose presence over multitasking; listen fully (James 1:19). Guard Against Burdening – Cover the cost of hospitality or outings. – Offer skills or service before asking favors (Galatians 6:2). Pursue People, Not Possessions – Celebrate milestones without expecting reciprocity. – Lend items freely and release anxiety about their return (Luke 6:35). Adopt a Parental Heart – Mentor younger believers; check in, pray, encourage. – Share resources: books, lessons, testimonies (Proverbs 13:22). Budget to Bless – Tithe first, then set aside a “Paul fund” for spontaneous generosity. – Surprise someone in need with groceries, a bill payment, or a ride (1 John 3:17–18). Love at Cost to Self – Let others succeed even if you stay unseen (John 15:13). – Forgive quickly; absorb the loss instead of demanding payback (Colossians 3:13). Encouragement for the Journey “Carry one another’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.” (Galatians 6:2) “Walk in love, just as Christ loved us and gave Himself up for us.” (Ephesians 5:2) Sacrificial love may cost comfort, time, or resources, yet it multiplies joy and mirrors the heart of the One who first loved us. |
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