How can we apply Proverbs 19:4 to prioritize godly relationships over wealth? Scripture Focus Proverbs 19:4 — “Wealth attracts many friends, but a poor man is deserted by his friend.” Seeing How the Proverb Speaks Today • Riches can pull people in for what they might gain, not for who we truly are. • Poverty can expose the shallow nature of relationships built on material advantage. • God shines a light on this reality so His people will cherish friends whose loyalty flows from shared faith and love, not financial benefit. Why God Values Relationships Above Riches • Love outlasts money. “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.” (Proverbs 17:17) • Eternal life, not earthly wealth, defines true prosperity. “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth… but store up for yourselves treasures in heaven.” (Matthew 6:19-20) • People bear God’s image; possessions do not. “Better a little with righteousness than great revenue with injustice.” (Proverbs 16:8) Guarding Against Partiality James 2:1-4 warns against favoring the rich and dishonoring the poor. • Partiality contradicts faith in the Lord of glory. • It creates divisions Christ died to break down. • Choosing friends by status or wealth offends God’s heart for justice and mercy. Practical Steps to Prioritize Godly Relationships 1. Celebrate contentment. Regularly thank the Lord for daily bread (1 Timothy 6:6-8). Content hearts seek character, not cash, in friends. 2. Invest time in the overlooked. Intentionally share meals, conversations, and service with believers who have little material advantage. 3. Test motives. Before entering a partnership or friendship, pause and invite the Spirit to reveal any hidden desire for gain (Psalm 139:23-24). 4. Honor loyalty over luxury. Keep commitments to friends even when their circumstances change and no benefit remains (Proverbs 18:24). 5. Give generously. Open hands break the grip of greed and free us to love people. “Command them to do good, to be rich in good deeds.” (1 Timothy 6:18) 6. Speak encouragement, not envy. Celebrate others’ successes without letting wealth determine admiration. 7. Surround yourself with wise believers. “Whoever walks with the wise will become wise.” (Proverbs 13:20) Investing in Eternal Treasure—People • Luke 12:15, 32-34 reminds that life does not consist in an abundance of possessions; the Father delights to give the kingdom. • When money fades, relationships formed around Christ remain and echo into eternity. Living the Proverb Choosing friends for their devotion to God and their love for others, not for their net worth, aligns the heart with heaven’s values. As Jesus loved freely, so His followers treasure people over possessions, proving that wealth may attract crowds, but only covenant-shaped love forges friendships that last. |
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