How can we apply the principles of Exodus 22:17 in today's society? Setting the Verse in Context “ ‘If her father absolutely refuses to give her to him, he must still pay an amount equal to the bride-price for virgins.’ ” (Exodus 22:17) Why the Command Was Given • Protects a young woman’s dignity after sexual sin • Upholds a father’s God-given role as protector (Numbers 30:3-5) • Deters casual, irresponsible sexual behavior • Compensates the family for potential loss of social and economic security Timeless Principles We Draw • Sex creates obligations—never merely recreation (1 Corinthians 6:18-20) • Fathers (and by extension, families) have stewardship to safeguard their children (Ephesians 6:4) • Wronging another person financially, emotionally, or sexually carries consequences (Leviticus 6:1-7) • Restoration is more than apology; it involves tangible repayment (Luke 19:8-9) Translating Those Principles into Today’s Society Personal Purity ▪ Prioritize sexual holiness: “For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality” (1 Thessalonians 4:3). ▪ Teach teens and singles to link sexual activity inseparably with lifelong commitment and covenant. Parental Oversight ▪ Parents remain vigilant shepherds of their children’s relationships—offering guidance, accountability, and sometimes a firm “no.” ▪ Encourage open conversations about dating and biblical sexuality at home (Deuteronomy 6:6-7). Accountability for Harm ▪ If someone’s sexual sin wounds another, genuine repentance includes practical restitution—covering counseling costs, medical bills, or other needs caused by the wrongdoing. ▪ Churches can facilitate restorative processes that combine discipline with compassionate support (Galatians 6:1-2). Honoring Marriage ▪ Elevate premarital counseling and community discernment rather than quick, private relationships. ▪ Celebrate weddings as covenantal, God-authored unions—never mere social contracts (Genesis 2:24). Valuing Women ▪ Reject any culture that treats women as disposable objects; instead, affirm their worth as image-bearers (Genesis 1:27). ▪ Promote ministries that aid victims of sexual exploitation, echoing the protective heart of Exodus 22:17. Legal and Social Policy ▪ Support laws that penalize sexual exploitation, trafficking, and statutory offenses, reflecting Scripture’s call for justice (Isaiah 1:17). ▪ Advocate policies that hold perpetrators financially responsible for the trauma they inflict. Living It Out Daily • Guard personal purity by setting digital and relational boundaries. • Parents: stay involved, know your children’s friends, model godly marriage. • Couples: approach engagement and intimacy only after covenant commitment. • Churches: teach on biblical sexuality regularly, provide mentoring, and practice restorative church discipline. • All believers: honor women, protect the vulnerable, and seek restitution wherever sin has cost another person. |
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