Contrast elder brother's and Jonah's reactions.
Compare the elder brother's reaction to Jonah's in Jonah 4:1-3.

Setting the Scene

• Both accounts show God’s mercy shining on undeserving sinners.

• Both Jonah and the elder brother respond with anger instead of joy.


Jonah 4:1-3

“ But Jonah was greatly displeased and became angry. So he prayed to the LORD: ‘O LORD, is this not what I said while I was still in my own land? This is why I was so quick to flee toward Tarshish. For I knew that You are a gracious and compassionate God, slow to anger, abounding in loving devotion, One who relents from sending disaster. And now, O LORD, please take my life from me, for it is better for me to die than to live.’ ”


Luke 15:28-30

“ The older son became angry and refused to go in. So his father came out and pleaded with him. But he answered his father, ‘Look, all these years I have served you and never disobeyed your commandment. Yet you never gave me even a young goat so I could celebrate with my friends. But when this son of yours who has squandered your property with prostitutes comes home, you kill the fattened calf for him!’ ”


A Side-by-Side Snapshot

• Anger:

– Jonah “became angry.”

– The elder brother “became angry.”

• Cause of anger: mercy shown to others.

• View of self:

– Jonah saw himself as a patriotic prophet who deserved God’s favor more than Nineveh.

– The elder brother saw himself as the dutiful son who deserved favor more than the prodigal.

• View of God/Father:

– Jonah accused God of being “too” compassionate.

– The elder brother accused his father of being “too” generous.

• Words of complaint:

– Jonah argued that his prior obedience should have been rewarded by judgment on Nineveh.

– The elder brother argued that his years of obedience should have been rewarded by a feast for himself.

• Desired outcome:

– Jonah preferred death to seeing Nineveh forgiven.

– The elder brother preferred isolation to joining the celebration of his brother’s return.


Shared Heart Issues

• Self-righteousness: trust in personal performance rather than grace (Romans 9:30-32).

• Entitlement: expectation that obedience obligates God to reward (Luke 18:9-14).

• Misunderstanding of mercy: anger reveals they see grace as a limited commodity.

• Fleshly anger: “Man’s anger does not bring about the righteousness that God desires” (James 1:20).


Contrasting Endings

• Jonah: the book closes with God questioning Jonah, leaving his response unknown, underscoring the call to repent of hard-heartedness.

• Elder brother: the parable ends with the father’s appeal hanging in the air, pressing listeners to examine their own hearts.


Lessons for Today

• God delights to show mercy (Ephesians 2:4-5).

• Obedience is a grateful response to grace, not a bargaining chip (Titus 3:4-7).

• Celebrating others’ redemption reflects the Father’s heart (Psalm 103:8-13).

• Guard against resentment when grace upends expectations (Philippians 2:3-4).


Looking to the Greater Brother

• Jesus, the true Elder Brother, left His throne to seek and save the lost (Luke 19:10).

• Rather than sulk, He “endured the cross” so prodigals and prophets alike could be welcomed home (Hebrews 12:2).

How can we avoid the elder brother's resentment towards others' blessings?
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