What can we learn about loyalty from David's actions in this passage? The Scene at the Jordan “The king replied, ‘Chimham will cross over with me, and I will do for him whatever you desire; and anything you request from me I will do for you.’” What We’re Watching Unfold • David is returning to Jerusalem after Absalom’s rebellion. • Barzillai, an elderly Gileadite who had supplied David in exile (19:31-32), declines the king’s invitation to relocate, asking instead that his servant—or perhaps son—Chimham be blessed in his stead (19:37). • David immediately grants the request, promising open-ended favor to Barzillai and to Chimham. David Models Loyalty in Three Simple Moves 1. He remembers past kindness. Barzillai’s quiet support during David’s flight is neither forgotten nor overlooked (cf. Proverbs 17:17). 2. He rewards faithfulness generously. David’s offer is expansive: “anything you request.” Loyalty deserves more than token thanks (cf. 1 Samuel 30:24-25). 3. He extends the blessing to the next generation. By honoring Chimham, David secures Barzillai’s legacy (cf. 2 Samuel 9:7 with Mephibosheth). Five Take-Home Lessons on Loyalty • Loyalty takes note: like David, we keep mental records of those who stand with us in trials (Philippians 1:3). • Loyalty repays good with good, not merely words (James 2:16). • Loyalty looks forward. Our faithfulness today can open doors for those who come after us (Psalm 103:17-18). • Loyalty trusts God’s sovereign order; David’s allegiance to supporters mirrors our allegiance to Christ, the greater King (John 12:26). • Loyalty is contagious. David’s honorable response invites the whole kingdom to value steadfast relationships (Hebrews 10:24). Scripture Echoes • Ruth 1:16-17 — Ruth’s pledge to Naomi illustrates unwavering attachment. • Proverbs 3:3-4 — “Do not let kindness and truth leave you… then you will find favor.” • 1 Chronicles 11:18-19 — David’s mighty men risk their lives; David honors their devotion. Living It Out David’s quick, generous response to Barzillai shows that true loyalty is remembered, rewarded, and reproduced. May our own commitments mirror that same steadfast spirit—toward friends, family, and above all toward the Lord who never forgets faithfulness. |
    |