In what ways can we apply Rehoboam's initial reaction to our own decision-making?

◄ How can Rehoboam's reaction guide us? ►

“When Rehoboam arrived in Jerusalem, he mobilized the house of Judah and Benjamin—180,000 chosen warriors—to fight against Israel and restore the kingdom to Rehoboam.”

What Rehoboam Did First

• Acted immediately, gathering force before seeking God’s will

• Let wounded pride and fear of loss drive the strategy

• Assumed human strength could secure what God had already promised to David’s line

Where That Impulse Touches Our Own Choices

• We often default to “fix it fast” rather than “seek God first”

• Emotions (pride, insecurity, anger) can push us toward hasty solutions

• We may trust resources—money, influence, expertise—more than the Lord’s direction

God’s Corrective Word and Its Significance

“But the word of the LORD came to Shemaiah the man of God: ‘Tell Rehoboam… “Do not fight against your brothers. Go home, for this matter is from Me.”’ So they listened to the words of the LORD and turned back from going against Jeroboam.” (2 Chronicles 11:2-4)

• God intervenes to stop a wrong-headed plan when hearts remain teachable

• Yielding to God’s word prevented bloodshed and preserved covenant order

Practical Takeaways for Our Decision-Making

1. Pause and pray before mobilizing resources

2. Identify the emotion fueling the impulse—name it, then surrender it

3. Seek counsel from Scripture and mature believers (Proverbs 15:22)

4. Test whether the plan builds God’s kingdom or merely protects ego

5. Be willing to reverse course when God’s word redirects (James 1:22)

Scriptures to Anchor These Steps

• Proverbs 3:5-6 — trust in the Lord, not your own understanding

• James 1:19 — be quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to anger

• Psalm 37:7-8 — wait patiently for Him; refrain from anger