In what ways can we seek peace and avoid strife like Isaac did? Tracing the Story: Isaac and the Wells • Genesis 26 records three wells. The first two—Esek (“Contention”) and Sitnah (“Opposition”)—became flashpoints with local herdsmen. • Verse 22: “He moved on from there and dug another well, and they did not quarrel over it. So he named it Rehoboth, saying, ‘At last the LORD has made room for us, and we will be fruitful in the land.’ ” Why Isaac’s Response Matters • He believed God’s covenant promise (26:3–5) and let that certainty outweigh any urge to fight. • He valued peace more than possession; his flocks needed water, yet his heart needed obedience. • By naming the well Rehoboth (“room,” “broad place”) he publicly credited the LORD for the peaceful outcome. Seeking Peace in Our Own Lives 1. Trust God’s Provision – Psalm 23:1: “The LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want.” – Anxiety over scarcity fuels conflict; confidence in His care frees us to yield rather than quarrel. 2. Walk Away from Fruitless Conflict – Proverbs 20:3: “It is honorable for a man to resolve a dispute, but any fool will quarrel.” – Isaac moved on twice before harmony emerged. Sometimes the most spiritual move is a literal move. 3. Speak Peacefully – Proverbs 15:1: “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” – Tone can either dig a new well of calm or reopen one of contention. 4. Pursue Reconciliation Proactively – Romans 12:18: “If it is possible on your part, live at peace with everyone.” – Take the initiative—apologize, clarify, or create fresh space for dialogue. 5. Remember the Bigger Mission – Isaac’s eyes were on the covenant fruitfulness God promised. – Philippians 2:3–4 urges us to look to the interests of others; keeping eternity in view shrinks most turf wars. 6. Guard Against Envy – James 3:16 warns, “For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every evil practice.” – Isaac’s neighbors envied his success (26:14). We break the cycle by rejoicing in others’ blessings. Results God Delights to Give • Inner rest: “You will keep in perfect peace the steadfast mind, because he trusts in You.” (Isaiah 26:3) • Witness to outsiders: Abimelech later sought a treaty, saying, “We see plainly that the LORD has been with you.” (Genesis 26:28) • Space for fruitfulness: Rehoboth became a symbol that God makes room for His people when they walk in peace. Living Rehoboth Today • Choose faith over fear of loss. • Relinquish rights rather than escalate strife. • Create fresh “room” in relationships—both physical space and gracious margin—so God’s abundance can flourish without contention. |