In what ways can we promote peace instead of "stirring up dissension"?

The Text

“...and one who spreads discord among brothers.” (Proverbs 6:19)

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Why Peace Matters to God

• Scripture lists sowing discord among brothers with sins He “hates” (Proverbs 6:16-19).

• Jesus calls peacemakers “sons of God” (Matthew 5:9).

• The gospel itself is “the gospel of peace” (Ephesians 6:15).

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Heart Attitudes that Promote Peace

• Humility—“in humility consider others more important than yourselves” (Philippians 2:3).

• Gentleness—“Let your gentleness be apparent to all” (Philippians 4:5).

• Patience—“he who is slow to anger quiets contention” (Proverbs 15:18).

• Love—“Above all, put on love, which is the bond of perfect unity” (Colossians 3:14).

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Practical Steps for Everyday Peacemaking

• Speak carefully

– Use “a gentle answer” to “turn away wrath” (Proverbs 15:1).

– Refuse gossip or slander (Proverbs 16:28; Ephesians 4:29).

• Listen first

– “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger” (James 1:19).

• Overlook minor offenses

– “It is to one’s glory to overlook an offense” (Proverbs 19:11).

• Confront privately and graciously when necessary

– Follow Matthew 18:15-17 for resolving sin between believers.

• Pursue reconciliation quickly

– “If possible, so far as it depends on you, live in peace with everyone” (Romans 12:18).

• Pray for those involved

– Intercede for softened hearts (1 Timothy 2:1-2).

• Model generosity and service

– Acts of kindness “heap burning coals” of conviction, not conflict (Romans 12:20).

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Guarding against Common Peace-Killers

• Anger left unchecked (Ephesians 4:26-27).

• Envy and selfish ambition (James 3:16).

• A divisive tongue (Titus 3:10).

• Prideful insistence on personal rights (1 Corinthians 6:7).

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Living Out the Gospel of Peace

• Allow the Holy Spirit to produce His fruit—“love, joy, peace…” (Galatians 5:22-23).

• Remember Christ reconciled us to God “making peace through the blood of His cross” (Colossians 1:20).

• As His ambassadors (2 Corinthians 5:18-20), we carry that same ministry of reconciliation into every relationship, choosing words and actions that unite rather than divide.