In what ways can we "remove wood" to maintain peace in relationships? Key Verse “Where there is no wood, the fire goes out, and where there is no whisperer, strife ceases.” (Proverbs 26:20) Understanding the Picture of “Wood” - Wood represents anything that feeds conflict. - Removing the fuel starves the flames of quarrels, allowing peace to settle. Practical Ways to Remove the Wood • Guard the Tongue – “Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth, but only what is helpful for building up…” (Ephesians 4:29) – Speak less when emotions surge; silence often douses sparks before they spread. • Refuse Gossip and Slander – “He who goes about as a gossip reveals secrets, but the trustworthy spirit keeps a matter concealed.” (Proverbs 11:13) – Decline the invitation to repeat hearsay; change the subject or walk away. • Extend Forgiveness Quickly – “Bear with one another and forgive any complaint you may have against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” (Colossians 3:13) – Release the offense before bitterness piles up like seasoned logs ready to burn. • Choose Gentle Words – “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.” (Proverbs 15:1) – Lower your volume, soften your tone, and watch tension evaporate. • Seek Reconciliation Humbly – “If possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” (Romans 12:18) – Admit wrongs promptly, ask forgiveness, and make restitution where needed. • Pray for the Other Person – “Bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you.” (Luke 6:28) – Intercession cools your own heart and invites God’s peace into the relationship. Spiritual Foundations - Peace is a fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22), not merely human effort. - Christ Himself “is our peace” (Ephesians 2:14), giving power to lay down kindling that fuels strife. Living It Out Daily - Start mornings by surrendering your words, attitudes, and reactions to the Lord. - During conversations, pause to ask, “Will this add wood or remove it?” - Celebrate every moment the fire dies down; it signals God’s grace at work in you. |
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