What practical steps can we take to honor and assist church leaders? Getting Oriented: Romans 16:2 in Context “Welcome her in the Lord in a manner worthy of the saints, and assist her in whatever matter she may need from you. For she has been a patron of many, including me as well.” Paul’s commendation of Phoebe gives a living snapshot of how believers should treat those who serve and lead. The verbs “welcome” and “assist” are our doorway to practical steps today. Practical Step 1: Receive Them with Genuine Warmth • Open your home and schedule to them just as the Roman believers opened theirs to Phoebe. • A handshake, a smile, a text of encouragement—small gestures reinforce that leaders are loved, not merely tolerated (cf. 3 John 5-8). Practical Step 2: Support Their Mission Tangibly • Offer specialized skills—accounting, carpentry, childcare, technology—whatever “matter” they need (Romans 16:2). • Financially invest; Scripture calls this “double honor” (1 Timothy 5:17-18). Practical Step 3: Protect Their Reputation • Speak well of them; refuse gossip (Proverbs 10:19). • If concerns arise, follow the Matthew 18 process rather than airing grievances publicly (Matthew 18:15-17). Practical Step 4: Pray Faithfully and Specifically • Pray for bold preaching, moral purity, family health, and physical stamina (Ephesians 6:19-20; Colossians 4:3-4). • Let them know you’re interceding; it refreshes weary hearts (2 Corinthians 1:11). Practical Step 5: Walk in Obedience to Their Teaching • “Obey your leaders and submit to them, for they keep watch over your souls” (Hebrews 13:17). • Nothing encourages a shepherd like seeing the flock live out the Word (3 John 4). Practical Step 6: Refresh Their Spirits • Provide periodic retreats or pulpit breaks so leaders can recharge (Mark 6:31). • Celebrate milestones—anniversaries, answered prayers, completed projects—as Paul celebrated Phoebe’s service. Putting It All Together Welcoming, assisting, honoring, praying, obeying, and refreshing—these are not optional extras but biblical essentials. Following the Romans 16:2 pattern allows every believer to become a steady pillar of support for the men and women God has placed over the church. |
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