In what ways can Mark 9:16 inspire us to seek clarity in disagreements? Setting the scene When Jesus descends the Mount of Transfiguration, He meets a noisy dispute between His disciples and religious scholars. Amid the commotion He says, “ ‘What are you debating with them about?’ ” (Mark 9:16). His single, penetrating question cuts through the confusion and sets the tone for resolving the conflict. Spotlight on Jesus’ question • Jesus does not ignore the argument; He steps toward it. • He does not jump to conclusions; He asks for the facts. • He does not belittle either side; He invites them to speak. • By asking, He establishes Himself as the rightful arbiter of truth—demonstrating both authority and humility. Lessons on seeking clarity • Begin with a question, not an accusation – Proverbs 18:13: “He who answers a matter before he hears it, it is folly and shame to him.” – Asking opens the door for honest dialogue. • Listen before you speak – James 1:19: “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger.” – Listening signals respect and often diffuses tension. • Identify the real issue – Jesus’ question forces the disputants to articulate exactly what is at stake. – Clear definition prevents sidetracks and personal attacks. • Keep truth central – John 14:6: Jesus is “the way and the truth and the life.” – Truth—not pride—must govern the discussion. • Maintain a redemptive purpose – Matthew 18:15–17 outlines steps aimed at restoration, not winning an argument. – The goal is healing, as seen moments later when Jesus delivers the boy. Putting it into practice • Pause and pray before entering a disagreement. • Ask sincere, open-ended questions: “Help me understand your concern.” • Summarize what you’ve heard to confirm accuracy. • Search the Scriptures together for God’s authoritative answer. • Agree on actionable steps that honor truth and foster peace (Romans 12:18). |
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