How does Moses' permission show hard hearts?
What does "Moses permitted" reveal about the hardness of human hearts in Matthew 19:7?

Setting the Scene

Matthew 19:7–8

7 “They asked Him, ‘Why then did Moses command a man to give his wife a certificate of divorce and send her away?’”

8 “Jesus replied, ‘Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because of the hardness of your hearts; but it was not this way from the beginning.’”


What “Moses Permitted” Actually Means

• “Permitted” (ἐπέτρεψεν) signals a divine concession, not an endorsement.

• The certificate of divorce in Deuteronomy 24:1–4 was a legal safeguard for the wronged woman, limiting the damage a hard-hearted husband could inflict.

• Jesus contrasts the concession (“Moses permitted”) with God’s original design (“from the beginning”), showing that allowance is never the same as approval.


Hardness of Heart Unmasked

• Hardened hearts resist God’s original intention for lifelong, one-flesh marriage (Genesis 2:24).

• Instead of repenting and reconciling, sinners look for loopholes, proving that rebellion runs deep (Jeremiah 17:9).

• The Pharisees quote the law as though it were a license; Jesus exposes their misuse (Mark 10:5).

• Hardness shows itself in:

– Self-centeredness: putting personal comfort above covenant faithfulness.

– Callousness: treating a spouse as disposable property.

– Spiritual blindness: ignoring that the law points to sin and the need for a new heart (Ezekiel 36:26).


Why God Allowed a Concession

• To restrain greater evil—unregulated, impulsive abandonment would have left women destitute.

• To expose sin—every certificate of divorce was a written testimony that something had gone terribly wrong.

• To point forward—only Christ can supply the tender heart needed to fulfill God’s ideal (Romans 8:3–4).


Lessons for Today

• God’s ideal has never changed; marriage is a lifelong covenant meant to mirror Christ’s unwavering love for His church (Ephesians 5:31–32).

• Legal permissions never override moral imperatives; we are called to aim for God’s original blueprint, not settle for concessions.

• When hardness surfaces—whether in marriage or any relationship—we must run to Christ for the heart transplant only He can give (2 Corinthians 5:17).

How does Matthew 19:7 challenge our understanding of marriage's sanctity and permanence?
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