How can Song of Solomon 5:13 deepen our understanding of spiritual intimacy? “His cheeks are like beds of spice—towers of perfume. His lips are lilies, dripping with flowing myrrh.” Seeing the Portrait Behind the Poetry - A literal bride describes her beloved; the Spirit also lifts this picture to reveal Christ’s beauty to His people (Ephesians 5:32). - “Beds of spice” and “towers of perfume” invite us to linger, inhale, and be changed by the fragrance of His nearness (2 Corinthians 2:14–15). - “Lips…dripping with flowing myrrh” combine tenderness (lilies) with sacrificial love (myrrh was used for burial, John 19:39), pointing us to the gospel message that flows from Christ’s mouth. Fragrance: Intimacy Through Nearness - Fragrance cannot be enjoyed at a distance; it is discovered by drawing close. • Spiritual intimacy grows as we move from mere knowledge about Christ to personal, daily communion (James 4:8). - Cheeks symbolize approachable warmth; the bride takes in every detail. • Likewise, we press close to Christ, trusting His gentleness (Matthew 11:29). Lips: Intimacy Through Word and Worship - Christ’s “lips” speak life-giving words (John 6:63). • The myrrh-dripping image tells us His every utterance is costly love, fulfilled at Calvary. - Our response: receive His Word humbly (Psalm 119:103) and echo it back in worship, letting praise become a two-way dialogue of affection (Hebrews 13:15). Practical Ways to Inhale the Aroma - Set aside unhurried moments to read the Gospels slowly, picturing Christ speaking directly to you. - Memorize short sayings of Jesus; repeat them throughout the day, “breathing” their fragrance. - Engage your senses in worship—sing aloud, kneel, or lift hands—allowing heart and body to draw near. - Cultivate silence after Scripture reading, giving space for the Spirit to impress Christ’s beauty on your soul. - Walk in sacrificial love toward others (Ephesians 5:2); the aroma of Christ spreads most naturally through self-giving acts. Key Takeaways for Deeper Spiritual Intimacy - Intimacy is awakened by contemplating Christ’s attractive character (His “cheeks”). - His sacrificial, truthful words (“myrrh-drenched lips”) invite open, fearless communion. - The more closely we press in, the more we carry His fragrance into every relationship and setting. |