How can Song of Solomon 7:4 inspire appreciation for God's creation in marriage? Verse at the Center “Your neck is like a tower of ivory; your eyes like the pools of Heshbon by the gate of Bath-rabbim. Your nose is like the tower of Lebanon overlooking Damascus.” (Songs 7:4) Why God Highlights Creation Imagery in Marriage • God authored both the natural world and the marriage covenant (Genesis 1:31; Genesis 2:24). • By weaving created wonders into marital praise, He teaches spouses to recognize His handiwork in one another. Unpacking the Imagery • Tower of ivory – strength and elegance united; reflects stability and purity within the relationship. • Pools of Heshbon – depth, clarity, refreshment; mirrors the calm trust found in godly intimacy. • Tower of Lebanon – prominence, dignity, protection; points to a steadfast commitment that stands out and blesses others. Appreciation for God’s Creation in Marriage 1. See your spouse as a unique masterpiece of the Creator (Psalm 139:14). 2. Let natural beauty remind you to voice specific, sincere admiration. 3. Celebrate physical features as gifts from the Lord, not subjects of comparison. 4. Recognize that marital love mirrors Christ’s cherishing of His church (Ephesians 5:29–30). 5. Allow shared enjoyment of nature—sunsets, gardens, vistas—to deepen gratitude for both creation and covenant. Practical Ways to Live This Out • Take nature walks together; verbally connect sights to qualities you cherish in your spouse. • Write a note using one element of creation to praise a character trait. • Display a photo of a favorite landscape and use it as a daily prompt to thank God for your marriage. • Memorize Songs 7:4 and recite it during anniversaries or special moments. Further Biblical Echoes • Proverbs 5:18–19 – delighting in one’s spouse framed as God-given joy. • Psalm 19:1 – heavens declare God’s glory, encouraging marital praise that echoes creation’s testimony. • Genesis 2:9 – pleasant to the sight; God values visual beauty and invites us to do the same within holy boundaries. Simple Takeaways • Creation language elevates, not objectifies, the beloved. • Noticing beauty in nature trains hearts to notice God’s artistry in marriage. • Consistent, Scripture-shaped affirmation nourishes lifelong devotion. |