What role does seeking counsel play in making wise decisions, as seen here? Context: A Desperate King Ben-hadad of Aram has been soundly defeated by Israel. Cornered in Aphek, he faces certain death unless he can appeal to Israel’s king, Ahab. The Counsel Offered “Then his servants said to him, ‘Look, we have heard that the kings of the house of Israel are merciful kings. So let us put sackcloth around our waists and ropes around our heads and go out to the king of Israel; perhaps he will spare your life.’” (1 Kings 20:31) • The servants identify Ahab’s reputation for mercy. • They recommend visible humility: sackcloth and ropes. • They propose a direct appeal to Ahab, resting hope on his mercy. • Ben-hadad accepts their counsel (vv. 32-34) and gains life and treaty. Key Observations About Seeking Counsel • Counsel often reveals perspectives the decision-maker cannot see alone—here, Israel’s merciful tradition. • Wise counsel aligns with truth; the servants’ advice matches Ahab’s actual character. • Acting promptly on sound counsel can avert disaster and open new opportunities. • Humility in both giving and receiving counsel is essential. Ben-hadad’s pride must yield to his servants’ plan. Supporting Scriptures • Proverbs 11:14 – “For lack of guidance a nation falls, but with many counselors there is deliverance.” • Proverbs 15:22 – “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” • Proverbs 24:6 – “For by wise guidance you wage your war, and in an abundance of counselors there is victory.” • Psalm 1:1 – “Blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked…” (underscores choosing godly counsel). • James 1:5 – “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God…” (divine counsel surpasses all). Principles for Wise Decision-Making 1. Pursue counsel intentionally; it is a God-designed safeguard. 2. Evaluate advice by Scripture’s standards of truth and righteousness. 3. Look for corroboration: multiple godly voices agreeing lends weight. 4. Act with humility; be willing to alter plans when wiser input appears. 5. Remember God Himself invites us to seek His wisdom first and foremost. Living This Out • Maintain relationships with mature believers who will speak truth in love. • Test important decisions against clear biblical teaching. • Invite feedback early, not merely when trouble strikes. • Practice humility, acknowledging that no one is self-sufficient in wisdom. • Thank God for providing both His Word and the community of counselors that steer His people toward life and blessing. |
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