How does pleasing God affect relations?
How does striving to please God influence our interactions with others?

Our Core Aim

“So we aspire to please Him, whether we are here in this body or away from it.” (2 Corinthians 5:9)

• Paul’s word “aspire” paints a daily, conscious choice.

• Pleasing God isn’t a side project; it drives every motive, plan, and relationship.


Overflow into Relationships

When God is the audience, how we treat people shifts:

• Honor becomes instinctive—every person bears His image (Genesis 1:27).

• Integrity feels non-negotiable—“Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as for the Lord.” (Colossians 3:23)

• Consistency replaces hypocrisy—public and private selves match because God sees both (Psalm 139:1-4).


Prioritizing God’s Approval, Not People’s

“Am I now seeking the approval of men, or of God?” (Galatians 1:10)

• Freed from chasing applause, we can speak truth in love, even when it’s unpopular.

• Criticism stings less; affirmation flatters less. God’s verdict matters most.


Shaping Speech and Actions

• Words: gracious, seasoned with salt (Colossians 4:6). Gossip fades when we answer to God.

• Actions: “Let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds.” (Matthew 5:16) Our conduct becomes a living invitation to know Christ.


Cultivating Humility and Service

“Do nothing out of selfish ambition… consider others more important.” (Philippians 2:3)

• Striving to please God steers us from self-promotion to quiet service.

• We step into menial tasks, unseen kindness, sacrificial giving—He sees.


Fuel for Forgiveness

“If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” (Romans 12:18)

• Remembering God forgave us (Ephesians 4:32) supplies courage to release grudges.

• Pleasing Him outweighs the demand to “win” a conflict.


Enduring Motivation

“Without faith it is impossible to please God.” (Hebrews 11:6)

• Faith anchors us when people misread motives or reject kindness.

• One day we will be “away from the body”—His “Well done” makes every earthly interaction worth the effort.

In what ways can we discern if our actions are pleasing to God?
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