How does this verse link to loving enemies?
How does this verse connect with Jesus' teachings on loving our enemies?

Setting the scene

“Some time later, Nahash king of the Ammonites died, and his son succeeded him as king.” (1 Chronicles 19:1)


Why this short verse matters

• Israel and Ammon had a long, uneasy history (Judges 11; 1 Samuel 11).

• By recording Nahash’s death, the Spirit signals a pivotal moment: a new ruler offers David a chance either to retaliate against a former foe or to extend peace.

• In the very next verse David chooses kindness: “I will show kindness to Hanun son of Nahash, because his father showed kindness to me” (v. 2). The narrative is a living illustration of enemy-love centuries before Jesus preached it.


David’s gesture of goodwill

• He sends “comforters” (v. 2) to mourn Nahash’s death—an act of mercy, not military intimidation.

• The Ammonite princes misread David’s motive, humiliate his envoys, and spark a war (vv. 3–6).

• Yet David’s initial move stands as a deliberate effort to bless a people who could easily have been treated as enemies.


Jesus on loving enemies

• “But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.” (Matthew 5:44)

• “But to those of you who will listen, I say: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you.” (Luke 6:27)

• “He is kind to the ungrateful and wicked.” (Luke 6:35)


Connecting David’s action with Jesus’ command

• Same heart posture

– David chooses kindness before hostility erupts; Jesus calls us to proactive love, not reactive peacekeeping.

• Same readiness to risk misunderstanding

– David’s goodwill is questioned; Jesus warns that love may be rejected, yet obedience matters more than outcome.

• Same reflection of God’s character

– David mirrors God’s covenant mercy (“hesed”). Jesus roots enemy-love in the Father’s own generosity toward “the ungrateful and wicked.”

• Same promise of divine vindication

Romans 12:20 echoes Proverbs 25:21: “If your enemy is hungry, feed him… you will heap burning coals on his head”. David’s unanswered kindness eventually exposes Ammonite guilt; our obedience leaves justice in God’s hands.


Practical takeaways

• Initiate kindness, don’t wait for neutrality.

• Expect possible rejection, yet stay faithful.

• Remember God’s kindness to you when you were His enemy (Romans 5:10).

• Let Scripture, not cultural norms, set your response to hostility.

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