In what ways can we support others experiencing similar anguish as in Psalm 38:8? The Cry of Psalm 38:8 “I am numb and badly crushed; I groan in anguish of heart.” Seeing Anguish with Compassion - David’s language is raw: numbness, being “badly crushed,” groaning from the heart. - Others around us experience the same mix of physical pain, emotional exhaustion, and spiritual heaviness. - “The LORD is near to the brokenhearted; He saves the crushed in spirit.” (Psalm 34:18) Scripture’s Call to Shoulder Burdens - “Carry one another’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.” (Galatians 6:2) - “Rejoice with those who rejoice; weep with those who weep.” (Romans 12:15) - “Strengthen the weak hands, steady the knees that give way.” (Isaiah 35:3-4) - God “comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God.” (2 Corinthians 1:3-4) Practical Ways to Support the Suffering Presence - Sit with them as Job’s friends did—before they spoke (Job 2:11-13). - A quiet, steady presence says, “You are not alone.” Listening - Allow them to voice their groans without interruption. - Reflect back what you hear to show understanding. Prayerful Intercession - Pray aloud or silently while with them, asking the “Father of compassion” (2 Corinthians 1:3) to touch their body and soul. - Keep praying after you leave; let them know they remain on your heart. Encouraging Words from Scripture - Share verses that speak to God’s nearness (Psalm 34:18), strength (Isaiah 41:10), and rest (Matthew 11:28). - Speak them gently, not as clichés, but as living truth. Practical Help - Provide meals, childcare, rides, or help with chores. - Small acts lighten the load and make God’s love tangible. Consistent Follow-Up - Check in regularly; anguish rarely resolves overnight. - Remember anniversaries of loss or trauma and reach out then. Words that Heal, Not Harm - Avoid quick fixes or blame; David already felt “badly crushed.” - Replace “You should…” with “I’m with you, and God is faithful.” - “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.” (Proverbs 25:11) Pointing to the Ultimate Comforter - Lead hearts to Christ, who says, “Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” (Matthew 11:28) - Remind them that Jesus Himself “was despised and rejected… a Man of sorrows, acquainted with grief.” (Isaiah 53:3) - Encourage trust that He not only understands anguish but has conquered it through the cross and resurrection. |
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