How can we practically apply "esteem them very highly" in our relationships? Seeing the Text Clearly “and to esteem them very highly in love on account of their work. Be at peace among yourselves.” (1 Thessalonians 5:13) Who Deserves This Esteem? • Pastors, elders, and teachers who labor in the Word • Those who lead ministries or serve faithfully behind the scenes • Parents who guide their households in the fear of the Lord • Employers, supervisors, and anyone shouldering responsibility for others • Spouses, friends, and fellow believers bearing each other’s burdens Why Esteem Is Essential • Scripture commands it—obedience honors Christ (Hebrews 13:17) • It promotes unity and peace in the body (Colossians 3:14–15) • It encourages weary servants to persevere (Galatians 6:9–10) • It models Christlike humility and love (Philippians 2:3–4) Practical Ways to “Esteem Them Very Highly” Speak Life • Offer sincere words of appreciation (Ephesians 4:29) • Share specific examples of how their service impacted you • Refrain from gossip or harsh criticism (Proverbs 16:28) Show Respect • Listen attentively when they speak or teach • Follow their godly leadership with a cooperative spirit • Protect their reputation when others belittle them (Proverbs 17:9) Demonstrate Support • Volunteer time, talents, or resources to lighten their load • Pray regularly for wisdom, strength, and protection (1 Samuel 12:23) • Remember special occasions—birthdays, anniversaries, ordinations Practice Generosity • Give financially to meet their needs (1 Timothy 5:17–18) • Surprise them with practical gifts or meals • Contribute to continuing education or retreats that refresh them Live Peaceably • Resolve conflicts quickly and biblically (Matthew 18:15–16) • Maintain a thankful attitude rather than a demanding one • Build bridges between different groups within the church family Benefits That Flow From Esteeming Others • Greater harmony and joy in relationships (Romans 12:10) • A witness to unbelievers of Christ’s love at work (John 13:35) • Strengthened leaders who can serve with boldness (2 Timothy 1:6–7) • A culture of mutual honor that blesses every generation (Psalm 133:1–3) Daily Checkpoints • Am I speaking words that lift others up? • Am I looking for tangible ways to lighten someone’s burden? • Am I guarding my heart against envy or criticism? • Am I praying faithfully for those who lead and serve me? By weaving these simple habits into everyday life, believers fulfill the call to “esteem them very highly in love,” cultivate peace, and showcase the beauty of the gospel in every relationship. |
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