What practical steps help us avoid being a "trap" for others spiritually? Setting the Scene—Romans 14:13 “Therefore let us stop judging one another. Instead, make up your mind not to put any stumbling block or obstacle in the way of a brother.” What Does It Mean to Be a “Trap”? • “Stumbling block” translates the Greek skándalon—originally a bait-stick in an animal trap. • Spiritually, it is any attitude, word, or action that lures another believer into sin, doubt, or despair (cf. Matthew 18:6-7; Luke 17:1). • Paul grounds this warning in the Spirit-given authority of Scripture; the command carries divine weight. Practical Steps to Keep from Becoming a Spiritual Trap • Examine My Own Heart – Daily ask the Spirit to reveal any hidden pride or judgment (Psalm 139:23-24). – Remember I will give an account of myself to God (Romans 14:12). • Choose Love over Liberty – Freedom is real, but love limits freedom for another’s good (1 Corinthians 10:23-24). – If a doubtful practice wounds a weaker conscience, I gladly abstain (1 Corinthians 8:9-13). • Watch My Words – Refuse gossip, sarcasm, or humor that belittles holy things (Ephesians 4:29). – Speak truth seasoned with grace, aiming to build up (Colossians 4:6). • Model Visible Integrity – Consistent choices in private protect brothers and sisters who are watching (Philippians 4:8-9). – Quick repentance when I fail shows others how to run to Christ, not away from Him (1 John 1:9). • Seek Mutual Edification – Pursue what leads to peace and mutual building up (Romans 14:19). – Invite accountability; give trusted believers permission to point out blind spots (Proverbs 27:17). • Prioritize the Weaker Brother – Ask, “Will this help or hinder someone newer or weaker in the faith?” (1 Corinthians 8:12). – Remember that Christ died for that brother or sister; their welfare outweighs my preference (Romans 14:15). • Cultivate Humble Perspective – Value others above myself (Philippians 2:3-4). – Keep eternity in view; rewards are promised to those who build others up, not tear them down (1 Corinthians 3:12-15). Living It Out Today The Word calls each believer to be a stepping-stone, never a snare. By surrendering liberties to love, guarding our speech, and walking humbly in view of Christ’s return, we help fellow travelers stay clear of spiritual traps and press on toward maturity together. |
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