In what ways can we avoid causing offense to fellow believers? The Heart of Paul’s Plea (Galatians 4:12) “ I beg you, brothers, become like me, for I became like you. You have done me no wrong.” Paul reminds the Galatians that he had willingly entered their world, setting aside his own cultural preferences so the gospel could flourish without friction. His example teaches us how to relate to fellow believers without creating stumbling blocks. Principle One: Step Into Each Other’s Shoes • Paul “became” like the Galatians—he identified with them, honoring their background. • Our first safeguard against offense is genuine empathy: take time to understand someone’s story, traditions, and sensitivities. Principle Two: Hold Convictions, Loosen Customs • Scripture never calls us to abandon truth, but it does urge us to release non-essential customs when they hinder fellowship (Romans 14:13, 19). • Distinguish between gospel essentials (Galatians 1:6-9) and personal preferences (Romans 14:5-6). Practical Ways to Avoid Offense • Speak thoughtfully – “Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth, but only what is helpful for building up…” (Ephesians 4:29). – Pause before commenting on sensitive topics; ask, “Will this build or bruise?” • Limit freedoms for love’s sake – “Be careful, however, that your freedom does not become a stumbling block…” (1 Corinthians 8:9). – If a liberty (food, media, celebration) troubles another’s conscience, consider setting it aside when you are together. • Choose edification over exhibition – “Let us pursue what leads to peace and to mutual edification.” (Romans 14:19) – Aim for what strengthens faith, not what shows off knowledge or personality. • Practice gentle honesty – “Speaking the truth in love…” (Ephesians 4:15) keeps relationships clear without cutting hearts. – Address issues privately first (Matthew 18:15), avoiding public embarrassment. • Imitate Christ’s self-denial – “For even Christ did not please Himself…” (Romans 15:3). – When unsure, default to the cross-shaped path of humble service. Mindset Shifts That Guard Unity • From “my right” to “their growth” (1 Corinthians 10:24). • From “prove I’m correct” to “show Christ’s character” (Philippians 2:3-4). • From “what bothers me” to “what blesses us” (Colossians 3:12-14). When Offense Happens Anyway • Seek reconciliation quickly (Matthew 5:23-24). • Offer and request forgiveness (Ephesians 4:32). • Let peace, not pride, have the last word (James 3:17-18). Living It Out Together Following Paul’s example in Galatians 4:12 means entering each other’s worlds, holding truth firmly yet flexibly expressing it. By choosing empathy, curbing liberties, and elevating love, we minimize offense and cultivate a community where the gospel shines. |
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