How can we "humble ourselves" like a child in daily life? The Verse in View “Therefore, whoever humbles himself like this little child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 18:4) What Childlike Humility Looks Like - Dependence: a child openly relies on parents for everything (Psalm 131:1-2). - Trust: quick to believe what a trustworthy father says (Luke 18:17). - Teachability: eager to learn, not pretending to “know it all” (Proverbs 1:5). - Low status accepted with joy: unconcerned with rank or image (Philippians 2:3). Why It Matters - God’s favor rests on the humble: “God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.” (James 4:6) - Humility positions us to be exalted by God, not ourselves (1 Peter 5:6). - It mirrors the heart of Christ, who “emptied Himself” (Philippians 2:6-8). Daily Practices for Childlike Humility 1. Start each morning confessing dependence—thank the Father for breath, strength, and guidance. 2. Submit plans: hold schedules loosely, asking God to direct interruptions. 3. Speak last and listen first; refuse to dominate conversations. 4. Serve in small, unseen tasks (washing dishes, picking up trash) without broadcasting them. 5. Celebrate others’ successes loudly and your own quietly. 6. Admit faults quickly; say “I was wrong” instead of offering excuses. 7. Learn something new from Scripture or a mature believer each day; keep the posture of a student. 8. Give generously—even small gifts—recognizing you’re only a steward. 9. Practice anonymity: do a good deed without linking your name to it (Matthew 6:3-4). 10. End the day with gratitude, not self-evaluation of greatness; remember any good fruit is the Lord’s (1 Corinthians 4:7). Guardrails: What Humility Is Not - Self-loathing or denying God-given abilities. - Passive timidity that avoids responsibility. - Fishing for compliments (“false humility”). - Neglecting personal boundaries under the guise of “servanthood.” Applying Humility in Key Arenas Home - Ask family members how you can serve them today. - Apologize immediately when impatience flares. Work or School - Credit teammates publicly; accept critique without defensiveness. - Volunteer for tasks others avoid. Church - Sit under teaching with an open Bible and open heart. - Join behind-the-scenes ministries: nursery, setup, cleaning. Community - Greet the overlooked—cashiers, custodians, neighbors who differ from you. - Use social media to honor others, not elevate self. Walking Forward in Grace Live moment by moment as a child in the Father’s household—trusting, dependent, teachable. In that low place, His exaltation comes in His time, and greatness in the kingdom quietly grows. |