What steps can we take to cultivate "discretion" in our decision-making? The Call to Discretion “For wisdom will enter your heart, and knowledge will delight your soul. Discretion will watch over you; understanding will guard you.” (Proverbs 2:10-11) What Scripture Means by “Discretion” • A God-given ability to distinguish between right and wrong in real time (Proverbs 3:21) • Sound judgment that protects us from error and regret (Proverbs 5:1-2) • Practical wisdom applied to specific situations (Proverbs 8:12) Steps to Cultivate Discretion in Decision-Making • Saturate your mind with God’s Word – Daily reading stores truth the Spirit can draw upon when choices arise (Psalm 119:9, 11). – Memorize key passages that address recurring decisions. • Ask the Author of wisdom for it – “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given.” (James 1:5) – Pray before commitments are made, not after consequences appear. • Guard your heart’s affections – What we love shapes what we choose (Proverbs 4:23). – Limit inputs—media, friendships, environments—that dull sensitivity to God’s standards. • Invite counsel from the wise – “Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.” (Proverbs 15:22) – Seek mentors who consistently live out biblical convictions. • Weigh the end from the beginning – Consider long-term outcomes before short-term pleasures (Proverbs 14:15). – Ask: Will this decision draw me closer to or farther from obedience? • Discipline your speech – Discretion often shows first in words held back (Proverbs 10:19). – Practice pausing before speaking, especially in conflict. • Walk in humility – Pride clouds judgment; humility invites God’s guidance (Proverbs 11:2). – Admit limitations and remain teachable. Blessings That Follow • Protection from unnecessary pain (Proverbs 2:11) • A reputation for reliability and trustworthiness (Proverbs 25:11-12) • Greater usefulness to God and others (2 Timothy 2:21) Putting It into Practice Today • Choose one area—finances, relationships, time management—where discretion is weak. • Apply the steps above this week, noting how God honors His promise: “Discretion will watch over you.” |
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