How can we ensure our actions "please" those we lead, as advised here? Our Guiding Verse “just as I also try to please everyone in every way. For I am not seeking my own good, but the good of many, so that they may be saved.” — 1 Corinthians 10:33 Why This Matters for Leaders • Scripture calls us to imitate Paul as he imitates Christ (1 Corinthians 11:1). • Pleasing those we lead is not flattery; it pursues their eternal good. • The goal is salvation, growth, and unity, never self-promotion. Core Principles to Shape Our Conduct • Seek their benefit, not ours (1 Corinthians 10:33; Romans 15:2). • Lead through humble service (Mark 10:45; John 13:14-15). • Value others above self (Philippians 2:3-4). • Model integrity and holiness (1 Peter 5:2-3). • Guard against causing offense or discouragement (Ephesians 6:4). Practical Ways to Please Those We Lead 1. Prioritize Their Spiritual Welfare – Teach sound doctrine (2 Timothy 4:2). – Pray for them and with them (Colossians 1:9-10). 2. Listen Actively – Know their state (Proverbs 27:23). – Address real needs, not assumed ones (James 1:19). 3. Communicate Clearly and Kindly – Speak truth in love (Ephesians 4:15). – Encourage more than you correct (1 Thes 5:11). 4. Serve Sacrificially – Be willing to do the lowliest task (John 13:14-15). – Put their interests ahead of schedules or preferences (Philippians 2:4). 5. Lead by Example – Live what you teach (Titus 2:7-8). – Display consistent integrity at home and in public (1 Timothy 3:4-5). 6. Cultivate a Culture of Grace – Extend forgiveness quickly (Colossians 3:13). – Cover all with love, the bond of perfect unity (Colossians 3:14). Pitfalls to Avoid • Self-seeking motives that shift focus from Christ to self. • Harshness or authoritarianism that provokes resentment (Ephesians 6:4). • Inconsistency that breeds distrust (James 1:8). • Neglecting personal holiness, which discredits testimony (1 Peter 1:15-16). Blessings When We Lead This Way • We mirror the heart of Christ to those we influence (John 13:35). • Unity flourishes, and stumbling blocks are removed (Romans 14:19). • Those we lead are built up, strengthened, and equipped for every good work (Ephesians 4:12). • God receives glory through obedient, loving leadership (Matthew 5:16). |
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