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How can we support others experiencing "among the bushes" moments in their lives?

Opening the Text

Job 30:7: “They brayed among the bushes and huddled beneath the nettles.”

Job is describing people so crushed by life that they hide in scrub and thorns, voiceless and forgotten. Their “among the bushes” moment is one of isolation, shame, and deep need.


Seeing the Pain Behind the Bushes

• Circumstances that drive people there can include sudden loss, betrayal, addiction, poverty, or illness.

• They often feel unheard—“they brayed,” yet no one listened (cf. Psalm 22:1–2).

• Physical need pairs with emotional and spiritual emptiness (Isaiah 58:10).


Why We Must Care

• God draws near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18) and calls His people to mirror that nearness (Proverbs 19:17).

• Ignoring them places us with Job’s accusers rather than with the Comforter (2 Corinthians 1:3–4).

• Our own rescue stories remind us we, too, once hid in shame (Ephesians 2:12–13).


Compassionate Steps We Can Take

• Go toward them, not away—presence speaks louder than advice (Luke 10:33–34).

• Listen patiently; let them finish their “bray” (James 1:19).

• Meet tangible needs: food, clothing, transportation, childcare (James 2:15–16).

• Speak hope from Scripture—share promises like Isaiah 41:10; Romans 8:38–39.

• Guard dignity: refuse gossip, protect their story (Proverbs 11:13).

• Advocate in practical systems—help with employment, medical care, and housing (Proverbs 31:8–9).

• Encourage professional help when necessary while staying relationally present (Galatians 6:2).


Words That Heal

Psalm 46:1 — “God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.”

Matthew 11:28 — “Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”

Hebrews 13:5 — “I will never leave you nor forsake you.”

Speak these gently, reminding them that God’s promises are as literal and unshakable as His character.


Walking the Long Road Together

• Consistency: check in regularly; small texts or visits matter.

• Community: invite them into safe fellowship (Acts 2:46–47).

• Prayer: lift them up faithfully even when they feel unable (Colossians 1:9).

• Celebration: mark each step forward—God rejoices over incremental victories (Zephaniah 3:17).


Remembering Our Own Bushes

• Humility keeps compassion alive (Romans 12:3).

• Gratitude fuels service—He brought us out to bring others with us (Psalm 40:2–3).

• Hope spreads: the comfort we receive becomes comfort we give (2 Corinthians 1:4).


Living the Lesson

A believer who takes Job 30:7 to heart moves toward hidden people, listens, serves, and walks beside them until their cries turn to praise. In doing so, we echo Christ, who stepped into our thorns, lifted us from the bushes, and calls us to do the same for others.

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