How can we cultivate confidence in others as Paul did in 2 Corinthians 7:16? Cultivating Confidence in Others: Lessons from 2 Corinthians 7:16 “I rejoice that I can have complete confidence in you.” — 2 Corinthians 7:16 Celebrating the Good We See • Paul voiced joy over tangible evidence of God’s work in the Corinthians. • Follow his pattern by publicly highlighting growth, faithfulness, and fruit (Philippians 1:3-6; 1 Thessalonians 1:2-3). Communicating Genuine Affection • Confidence grows where people feel loved. • Paul’s “affection for you is even greater” (2 Corinthians 7:15). • Speak and show real warmth: notes, encouraging texts, intentional hospitality (Romans 12:10). Investing Time and Presence • Paul didn’t rely on one letter; he visited, wrote again, and sent Titus (2 Corinthians 7:6-7). • Steady presence—sharing meals, attending events, scheduling regular check-ins—proves love and builds trust (Acts 20:31). Modeling Transparent Integrity • Paul acknowledged past rebukes and his own emotions (2 Corinthians 7:8-9). • Honest confession of our failures and motives demonstrates reliability (2 Corinthians 1:12). Speaking the Truth in Love • Genuine confidence isn’t flattery; it rests on truth (Ephesians 4:15). • Address sins or concerns firmly yet kindly, aiming for restoration (Galatians 6:1). • Once repentance appears, move quickly to reassurance rather than lingering on the failure (2 Corinthians 2:7). Pointing to God’s Grace at Work • Paul’s confidence was rooted in God’s power, not human strength (2 Corinthians 3:4-5). • Remind believers that the same grace that saved them sustains them (Titus 2:11-14). • Celebrate progress as evidence of the Spirit’s ongoing ministry (Philippians 2:13). Cheering for Their Future • Paul looked ahead, expecting continued faithfulness (Philippians 1:6). • Speak forward-looking words—“I see God using you to…”—to lift vision and resolve (Hebrews 10:24). • Pray aloud over them, affirming God’s promises and their calling (Colossians 4:12). Putting It All Together • Confidence blossoms when people consistently experience love, truth, presence, integrity, and grace. • By mirroring Paul’s approach—grounded in the literal, living Word—we help brothers and sisters walk boldly in Christ, knowing they are trusted and supported. |