How to know God and Jesus personally?
What actions can we take to better know God and Jesus personally?

why John 16:3 matters

“They will do these things because they have not known the Father or Me.” (John 16:3)

• Jesus pinpoints the core problem—people act against God because they don’t truly know Him.

• Our goal, then, is to move from mere information about God to heartfelt, personal knowledge of Him.


immerse yourself in his word

• Scripture is God’s self-revelation; time in the Word is time with God.

Jeremiah 29:13: “You will seek Me and find Me when you search for Me with all your heart.”

• Practical helps:

– Read a gospel chapter daily to stay face-to-face with Jesus.

– Keep a notebook; jot what the text shows about God’s character.

– Memorize key verses so He speaks to you throughout the day.


listen and speak: deepen relationship in prayer

• Relationships thrive on two-way communication.

James 4:8: “Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you.”

• Ideas to try:

– Begin prayer with a brief reading; let Scripture set the agenda.

– Talk to Him through the day, not just at set times—“arrow prayers” in traffic, meetings, errands.

– End each day thanking Him for specific ways you saw His hand.


live what you learn: obedience builds intimacy

1 John 2:3: “By this we can be sure that we have come to know Him: if we keep His commandments.”

• Obedience transforms knowledge from theory to experience.

• Action steps:

– Ask, “What does this verse call me to do?” then schedule it.

– Start with the next right thing—apologize, forgive, serve.

– Celebrate small victories; obedience grows cumulative confidence in God.


depend on the helper: the holy spirit’s role

• Jesus sent the Spirit to guide us “into all truth” (John 16:13).

• Rely on Him consciously:

– Each morning invite His filling (Ephesians 5:18).

– Expect conviction; respond quickly rather than resisting.

– Look for His fruit—love, joy, peace—as evidence of deeper knowing.


walk with his people

• God designed community to sharpen our understanding of Him.

• Join a Bible-teaching church, small group, or study partner.

• Share insights and struggles; mutual encouragement keeps hearts warm.


keep worship at the center

Psalm 46:10: “Be still and know that I am God.”

• Set aside moments simply to adore—sing, journal, or sit quietly.

• Worship shifts focus from self to the greatness of Father and Son, anchoring every other practice.


grow and keep growing

2 Peter 3:18: “But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.”

• Knowing God is lifelong; lean in daily, and He will faithfully reveal Himself more and more.

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