In what ways can we avoid harboring "perpetual hatred" in our hearts today? Verse Focus “Because you harbored an ancient hostility and delivered the Israelites over to the sword in the time of their calamity, at the final stage of their punishment.” — Ezekiel 35:5 Setting the Scene Edom’s “ancient hostility” illustrates how resentment can calcify into a lifetime of bitterness. God condemns it, warning that perpetual hatred invites judgment and destroys fellowship with Him and with others. Key Principle: Uproot the Ancient Hostility • Hatred is not merely an emotion; it is a deeply rooted choice (1 John 3:15). • Allowing bitterness to linger gives the devil “a foothold” (Ephesians 4:26-27). • Love and forgiveness are commands, not suggestions (Matthew 5:44; Colossians 3:13). Practical Steps to Guard the Heart • Examine your thoughts daily – Compare them with Philippians 4:8. Anything unloving must be rejected at once. • Confess resentment quickly – “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us” (1 John 1:9). • Pray blessing over those who wrong you – “Bless those who curse you” (Luke 6:28). Speaking blessing uproots hate. • Remember God’s mercy toward you – “While we were still sinners, Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8). Mercy received becomes mercy offered. • Replace hatred with acts of kindness – “Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good” (Romans 12:21). • Cultivate peaceful relationships – “Pursue peace with everyone” (Hebrews 12:14). • Stay in community and accountability – Meeting with believers (Hebrews 10:24-25) keeps bitterness from hiding in the shadows. • Saturate yourself in Scripture – “Your word I have hidden in my heart, that I might not sin against You” (Psalm 119:11). Why It Matters for Today • Perpetual hatred blinds us to God’s purposes, just as it blinded Edom. • Bitterness poisons relationships, while forgiveness heals families, churches, and communities. • God’s glory is displayed when former enemies become brothers and sisters in Christ (Ephesians 2:14-16). Scriptures to Remember • Proverbs 10:12 — “Hatred stirs up strife, but love covers all offenses.” • Ephesians 4:31-32 — “Get rid of all bitterness…be kind to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” • Colossians 3:14 — “Above all these things, put on love, which is the bond of perfection.” |