In what ways can we prepare to "repay" acts of kindness received? Key Verse “Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due, when it is in your power to act.” (Proverbs 3:27) Why Preparation Matters The verse assumes two things: someone has shown us “good,” and we now have both the obligation and the ability to act in return. Preparation keeps us from “withholding” that good when the moment to respond arrives. Practical Steps to Be Ready • Keep a gratitude journal – jot down the kindnesses you receive so they stay fresh in mind. • Pray for the giver by name – this readies your heart to bless, not merely repay. • Budget generosity – set aside money or time each month specifically for returning kindness. • Sharpen relevant skills – a handyman can repair, a cook can deliver meals; prepare the talent you’ll later use. • Maintain margin – avoid over-committing so you’re free to act “when it is in your power.” • Listen for needs – regular conversation with the one who blessed you reveals practical ways to serve. • Act promptly – delayed repayment can feel like withholding; swift action honors both God and the giver. Keeping the Motive Pure Repaying kindness is not a cold debt but an overflow of love: “Owe no one anything, except to love one another” (Romans 13:8). Gratitude, not guilt, fuels biblical repayment. Scriptures That Strengthen Resolve • Luke 6:38 – “Give, and it will be given to you…” • Galatians 6:10 – “As we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone, and especially to those who are of the household of faith.” • 1 John 3:18 – “Little children, let us love not in word and speech, but in action and truth.” |
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