How can we discern God's choices over human preferences in our lives? Setting the Scene: Samuel in Jesse’s House “Jesse had seven of his sons pass before Samuel, but Samuel told Jesse, ‘The LORD has not chosen any of these.’ ” (1 Samuel 16:10) Key Takeaway: Divine Selection Overrides Human Preference • Jesse proudly lined up seven strong sons—Samuel assumed God’s next king must be among them. • God quietly said no, shocking every human expectation. • The pattern: God’s choice can sit outside our most obvious, culturally approved, or personally comfortable options. Why Our Instincts Often Miss God’s Choice • We look at credentials; God looks at character (1 Samuel 16:7). • We chase speed; God values His schedule (2 Peter 3:9). • We crave applause; God seeks obedience (John 12:43). Guidelines for Discerning God’s Choices Over Our Preferences 1. Submit Your Perspective – Proverbs 3:5–6: “Trust in the LORD with all your heart… He will make your paths straight.” – Lay down assumptions before asking for guidance. 2. Saturate Your Mind with Scripture – Psalm 119:105: His word lights the path. – The more Scripture fills the heart, the easier it is to spot options that contradict it. 3. Listen for the “No” as Well as the “Yes” – Acts 16:6-7: Paul’s team was forbidden by the Spirit to preach in Asia at that moment. – A closed door can be divine direction, not failure. 4. Examine Motives – James 4:3 warns that selfish motives hinder prayer. – Ask, “Is this for God’s glory or my ego?” 5. Seek God-Centered Counsel – Proverbs 11:14: victory comes with many counselors. – Mature believers help test impressions against Scripture. 6. Wait for Peace and Confirmation – Colossians 3:15: let Christ’s peace rule (act as umpire). – Multiple confirmations—Scripture, inner peace, circumstances—often align. Common Roadblocks • Impatience: forcing Ishmael when God promised Isaac (Genesis 16). • Comparison: Saul’s armor on David never fits (1 Samuel 17:38-39). • Fear of Loss: rich young ruler valued wealth over Jesus’ invitation (Luke 18:22-23). Living It Out Today • Begin decisions on your knees, not in your inbox. • Measure opportunities by biblical principles, not cultural trends. • Celebrate God’s “No” as protective love. • Keep eyes open for the unexpected “David” solution—smaller, quieter, yet divinely endorsed. |
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