How to show love and unity in faith?
What steps can we take to express love and unity among believers?

Sharing Paul’s Closing Charge

“All the brothers here send you greetings. Greet one another with a holy kiss.” (1 Corinthians 16:20)


Why a Simple Greeting Matters

• Paul’s instruction is not a cultural throwaway; it is Spirit-inspired guidance showing that real, physical expressions of affection strengthen the family bond Christ created (Romans 12:10).

• A “holy kiss” was a pure, intentional act that marked believers as one redeemed people (1 Peter 5:14). Today the form may be a warm handshake, hug, or word of blessing, but the principle stands: genuine, tangible warmth knits hearts together.


Five Daily Ways to Put Love and Unity on Display

1. Warm, Intentional Greetings

– Arrive early to worship so you can welcome others instead of slipping in unnoticed (Hebrews 10:24-25).

– Learn names and use them; it communicates value and fosters belonging (Isaiah 43:1).

2. Thoughtful Physical Expressions

– Offer an appropriate hug, pat on the shoulder, or handshake that conveys respect and family closeness.

– Let it be “holy”—pure, not flirtatious or coercive—mirroring Christ’s love (1 Timothy 5:1-2).

3. Consistent Hospitality

– Open your home or share a meal after church (Acts 2:46).

– Hospitality breaks down walls and invites deeper fellowship (Romans 12:13).

4. Quick Reconciliation

– Refuse to let offenses linger; pursue peace “as far as it depends on you” (Romans 12:18).

– Speak truth in love, forgive as the Lord forgave you (Ephesians 4:32; Colossians 3:13).

5. Shared Service

– Volunteer side-by-side—teaching children, preparing meals, supporting missions (1 Peter 4:10).

– Serving together shifts focus from self to Christ’s body, cultivating unity (Philippians 2:1-4).


Guardrails That Keep Unity Intact

• Pray regularly for fellow believers by name; intercession softens hearts (Ephesians 6:18).

• Refuse gossip; talk to people, not about them (Proverbs 16:28).

• Celebrate differences in age, culture, and gifting, remembering each part is necessary (1 Corinthians 12:12-27).


Looking Forward Together

Small acts—warm greetings, holy affection, shared meals, swift forgiveness, and mutual service—become powerful testimonies that Christ truly unites His people (John 13:35). As we live out Paul’s simple command, the church displays a compelling picture of heaven’s family on earth.

How can we foster genuine Christian fellowship in our church community?
Top of Page
Top of Page