How can we discern godly counsel from worldly advice in our daily lives? Context from 2 Samuel 17:4 “ This proposal pleased Absalom and all the elders of Israel.” Absalom embraced counsel that seemed clever, yet it opposed God’s plan for David. The scene draws a clear line between advice that appears attractive and counsel that is truly godly. Four Checks for Discerning Counsel • Alignment with Scripture – Psalm 119:105: “Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.” – If advice contradicts—even subtly—what God’s Word says, it is worldly, no matter how persuasive. • Character of the Counselor – Matthew 7:17–18: “Every good tree bears good fruit… a bad tree bears bad fruit.” – Look for habitual obedience, humility, and the fruit of the Spirit in the adviser’s life. • Nature of the Wisdom Offered – James 3:17: “The wisdom from above is first of all pure, then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial, and sincere.” – Godly counsel reflects these traits; worldly advice often appeals to pride, impatience, or self-promotion. • Witness of the Spirit – Proverbs 3:5–6: “Trust in the LORD with all your heart…” – Prayerful submission invites the Holy Spirit to confirm or check what you’ve heard. Lessons from Absalom’s Error 1. Quick consensus is not proof of godliness (2 Samuel 17:4). 2. Popularity can mask ungodly motives. 3. The minority voice (Hushai) can be the one God uses to protect His people (17:14). Practical Steps for Today • Measure every piece of advice against clear biblical commands and principles. • Ask, “Does this counsel draw me nearer to the Lord or toward self-reliance?” • Seek multiple godly voices (Proverbs 11:14) before major decisions. • Observe the long-term fruit of those giving advice. • Wait on the Lord for internal peace that accompanies obedience (Philippians 4:7). Summary Snapshot Worldly advice often feels right “to all the elders” in the moment (2 Samuel 17:4), yet it leads away from God’s will. Godly counsel is Word-centered, Spirit-confirmed, and borne out by the Christlike character of those who offer it. |
    |