What steps can we take to support new believers, inspired by Philemon 1:10? Setting the Scene Philemon 1:10: “I appeal to you for my child Onesimus, whom I have begotten in my imprisonment.” Paul’s tender words show the heart of a spiritual parent. Onesimus has just come to faith, and Paul is already acting to ensure his healthy start. From this snapshot we discover simple, biblical ways to stand beside every new believer today. Seeing the Example in Philemon 1:10 • Personal Investment: Paul calls Onesimus “my child,” revealing deep, familial care. • Intentional Advocacy: He “appeals” on Onesimus’ behalf, protecting and commending him. • Ongoing Relationship: Even from prison, Paul stays connected, proving distance or hardship need not hinder discipleship. Practical Steps to Support New Believers • Adopt a Spiritual Parenting Mind-set – Treat them as family (John 1:12). – Commit to walk with them, not just check on them. • Share Your Life as Well as Truth – Open your home (Acts 2:46). – Model prayer, Bible reading, and repentance in real time. • Advocate for Their Acceptance – Speak well of them in the wider church (Romans 15:7). – Help them plug into small groups, ministries, and friendships. • Teach Foundational Doctrine Early – Salvation by grace (Ephesians 2:8-9). – Assurance of faith (1 John 5:13). – Identity in Christ (2 Corinthians 5:17). • Encourage First Steps of Obedience – Baptism (Matthew 28:19). – Honest confession of past wrongs, as Onesimus had to do with Philemon (James 5:16). • Pray with and for Them Regularly – Follow Paul’s pattern (Colossians 1:9-10). – Let them hear your prayers for their growth. Guarding and Growing the Relationship • Maintain Consistent Contact – Weekly messages or meet-ups reinforce belonging (Hebrews 10:24-25). • Celebrate Spiritual Milestones – Mark their first service opportunity, answered prayer, or Scripture memory achievement. • Address Struggles Swiftly – Offer biblical counsel when they stumble (Galatians 6:1-2). Resources for Ongoing Growth • A Readable Bible and Study Plan—start with the Gospels and Psalms. • A Discipleship Partner—someone mature, available, and encouraging. • Church Involvement—worship, teaching, service teams. • Solid Literature—introductory theology, testimonies, and apologetics. • Accountability Tools—journals, prayer lists, scripture memory apps. By following Paul’s loving pattern, we help new believers like Onesimus move quickly from spiritual infancy to fruitful maturity, all for the glory of Christ. |
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