How should we respond when others help us achieve success, as Joab did? Setting the Scene: Joab’s Strategic Assist • 2 Samuel 12:27: “Then Joab sent messengers to David to say, ‘I have fought against Rabbah and have captured the water supply of the city.’” • Joab had done the hard work, yet he paused and summoned David so the victory would be credited to the king (v. 28). • His action models a godly team ethic: doing our part, then inviting others to share in the success. Core Principles for Responding When Others Help Us Succeed • Honor the contribution. David accepted Joab’s report and led the final assault, implicitly acknowledging Joab’s labor (v. 29). • Share the credit. “Give honor to whom honor is due” (Romans 13:7). Success is rarely solo. • Maintain humility. “What do you have that you did not receive?” (1 Corinthians 4:7). Any achievement is ultimately a gift. • Celebrate together. David gathered “all the people” (2 Samuel 12:29) so the whole army entered the city; victory became communal joy. • Keep God central. “I planted, Apollos watered, but God gave the growth” (1 Corinthians 3:6). A thankful heart points upward first. Scripture Connections • 1 Samuel 30:24—equal share for those who fight and those who guard supplies. • Proverbs 27:2—“Let another praise you, and not your own mouth.” • 1 Thessalonians 5:11—“Encourage one another and build each other up.” • Philippians 2:3—“In humility consider others more important than yourselves.” • Romans 16—Paul names coworkers, recording their efforts for all time. Practical Ways to Live This Out • Speak gratitude quickly and specifically—name what the other person did. • Publicly highlight teammates in reports, social media, or meetings. • Share tangible rewards—bonuses, recognition, opportunities—just as David shared the spoils (2 Samuel 12:30-31). • Pray for those who assisted; ask God to bless their families and future endeavors. • Guard against resentment when someone else finishes the task you began; rejoice that the mission succeeded (John 3:30). Living a Culture of Honor When God advances us through the faithful help of others, we respond like David and Joab: acknowledge the assistance, spread the celebration, and keep the spotlight on the Lord who orchestrated every step. |
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