In what ways can we show appreciation to those who support us, like David? Context: David and Barzillai “So all the people crossed the Jordan, and the king crossed too. Then the king kissed Barzillai and blessed him, and Barzillai returned home.” (2 Samuel 19:39) The record is literal history: an elderly Barzillai had materially sustained David during Absalom’s revolt (2 Samuel 19:32). As the king returned to Jerusalem in victory, he paused at the river to express heartfelt appreciation. David’s Model of Appreciation • Personal acknowledgment – David did not delegate thanks; he met Barzillai himself. • Warm affection – “the king kissed Barzillai,” a Middle-Eastern sign of honor and love. • Spoken blessing – David pronounced good over him, invoking God’s favor. • Tangible offer – 19:33 shows David inviting Barzillai to live at court and “let me provide for you.” • Respecting the supporter’s wishes – when Barzillai declined, David honored the request and blessed Barzillai’s son Chimham instead (19:37-38). • Ongoing remembrance – generations later the place called “Geruth Chimham” (Jeremiah 41:17) testifies that David’s gratitude had lasting impact. Practical Ways We Can Show Appreciation Today • Speak sincere words of gratitude (Proverbs 25:11; Philippians 1:3). • Offer warm, appropriate affection—handshake, hug, personal note—so people feel valued. • Publicly honor supporters where suitable (Romans 13:7; 1 Timothy 5:17). • Bless them in prayer and speech, asking God’s favor upon their lives (Numbers 6:24-26). • Share resources—time, finances, opportunities—just as they shared with us (Luke 6:38). • Respect their preferences; gratitude listens. • Extend kindness to their family, echoing David’s care for Chimham (Proverbs 17:17). • Keep the relationship active after the crisis passes; loyalty outlives the moment (Proverbs 18:24). Scriptural Echoes of Gratitude • Proverbs 3:27 – “Do not withhold good from the deserving when it is within your power to act.” • Romans 12:10 – “Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Outdo yourselves in honoring one another.” • 1 Thessalonians 5:12-13 – “Acknowledge those who labor among you… esteem them very highly in love because of their work.” • 1 Samuel 30:26 – David sent portions to the elders of Judah after victory, another concrete thank-you. Living It Out Just as the historical account records David’s kiss and blessing at the Jordan, believers today can mirror that same spirit of genuine, tangible gratitude. Words, actions, and ongoing care all combine to honor those God has used to sustain us. |
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