How to uplift others in tough times?
How can we encourage others when they face trials, as Paul did?

Setting the Scene

“For when we were with you, we kept telling you that we would suffer persecution, and as you know, it has happened.” (1 Thessalonians 3:4)


Trials Are Certain, Not Surprising

• Paul spoke of trouble before it arrived, so when it hit, no one felt blindsided

• Jesus said the same: “In the world you will have tribulation. But take courage; I have overcome the world!” (John 16:33)

• Clear expectation removes shock, steadies faith, and shuts the door on despair


Preparing Hearts Before the Storm

• Remind friends that hardship is part of discipleship (Acts 14:22; 2 Timothy 3:12)

• Share biblical examples of faithful endurance—Joseph, David, the early church

• Equip with promises: Romans 8:18 keeps eyes on future glory


Staying Present Through Personal Testimony

• Paul let the Thessalonians watch him suffer well, providing a living blueprint

• Our own stories of God’s faithfulness offer credibility and hope

• “We comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God.” (2 Corinthians 1:3–4)


Sending Strength When We Cannot Be There

• Paul sent Timothy to “establish and exhort” the church (1 Thessalonians 3:2)

• Phone calls, texts, letters, and visits still carry that same reinforcing power

• Never underestimate a timely verse, song link, or shared meal


Rooting Encouragement in Christ’s Victory

• Trials feel heavy, yet Christ’s triumph frames every hardship with final joy

• Remind believers they are “more than conquerors through Him who loved us” (Romans 8:37)

• Encourage gratitude: recognizing small mercies lifts weary hearts


Speaking Scripture Aloud

• Read passages together—Psalm 46, Isaiah 40, James 1:2–4

• Hearing the Word reinforces truth and pushes back anxious thoughts

• Memorize key promises for moments when emotions run high


Engaging in Continuous Prayer

• Paul prayed night and day for the Thessalonians (1 Thessalonians 3:10)

• Commit to specific times of intercession, letting them know you are standing in the gap

• Short, faith-filled prayers over voice messages or at the doorstep create holy momentum


Celebrating Growth After the Trial

• Point out evidence of maturity, perseverance, and deeper joy

• Affirm steps of faith, however small, echoing Hebrews 10:24–25 by “spurring one another on”

• Help them see that suffering never wastes time; it refines faith “more precious than gold” (1 Peter 1:6–7)

Walking with others through trials mirrors Paul’s pattern: warn honestly, stay relationally present, ground every word in Christ’s unshakeable victory, and celebrate the fruit God produces on the other side.

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