How to welcome children in church today?
How can we "let the little children come" in our church community today?

Begin With Jesus’ Heart for Children

Mark 10:13–16 shows Jesus welcoming children and blessing them.

• He was “indignant” when the disciples blocked the way (v. 14), underscoring His seriousness.

• Welcoming kids today is not optional; it is obedience to His direct command: “Let the little children come to Me, and do not hinder them” (v. 14).


See Children as God’s Gift, Not a Distraction

Psalm 127:3: “Children are indeed a heritage from the LORD.”

• A congregation’s attitude sets the tone: smiles, eye contact, and genuine greetings communicate worth.

• Celebrate children’s noises as signs of life, not interruptions.


Cultivate Child-Friendly Worship Spaces

• Provide seating where families can see and hear—near the front so kids can watch.

• Use clear signage for nursery and restrooms; remove stumbling blocks (Matthew 18:5-6).

• Offer children’s bulletins, quiet activity bags, or picture Bibles to keep hands engaged while ears listen.

• Keep lighting warm and sound levels safe for sensitive ears.


Invest in Age-Appropriate Bible Teaching

Deuteronomy 6:6-7 calls parents—and by extension the church—to teach diligently.

• Create classes that move from Bible stories (preschool) to doctrine and apologetics (preteens).

• Use Scripture memory challenges, songs, and hands-on crafts to root truth in young hearts (2 Timothy 3:15).


Empower Children to Participate and Serve

• Let them read Scripture aloud, usher with adults, hand out bulletins, or join the worship team on simple instruments.

• Encourage testimony times where kids share answered prayers or Scripture memory.

• Pair each child with a “church grandparent” to nurture intergenerational bonds (Titus 2:1-8 principle).


Equip and Support Parents

• Offer parenting workshops on discipline that reflects Ephesians 6:4: “bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.”

• Provide take-home discussion guides so families revisit Sunday’s passage around the table.

• Schedule family-inclusive small groups with child care to remove participation barriers.


Raise a High Safety Standard

• Mandatory background checks and two-adult policies echo Jesus’ warning against causing little ones to stumble (Matthew 18:6).

• Train volunteers annually on child protection, first aid, and emergency procedures.

• Maintain clean, labeled classrooms with secure check-in/out systems.


Model Prayer and Worship at Their Level

• Pray aloud for children during services so they hear their names before God.

• Use short, concrete phrases when praying with kids; invite them to add their own words.

• Incorporate motions or simple choruses into congregational singing to encourage full-body praise (Psalm 8:2).


Foster Faith Beyond the Church Walls

• Encourage families to invite neighborhood kids to VBS, mid-week clubs, or backyard Bible studies.

• Organize service projects suitable for little hands—assembling care bags, raking leaves for seniors—to teach missional living early.


Measure Success by Faithfulness, Not Silence

• A bustling foyer, crayon marks on bulletin covers, and giggles in the pews are evidence that children are present—and welcome.

• The true metric: Are little hearts being drawn to Jesus and His Word? If so, we are rightly obeying His call to “let the little children come.”

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