What can we learn about God's standards from 1 Kings 1:4? Setting the scene 1 Kings 1:4 — “The girl was very beautiful, and she cared for the king and served him, but the king had no relations with her.” Immediate observations • Abishag’s beauty is noted, yet no sexual relationship occurs. • Her role is one of service and practical care for an aging king. • David’s physical weakness does not override moral boundaries. God’s standards reflected in the verse • Purity honored even in private, vulnerable moments. • Boundaries maintained between caregiver and recipient. • A leader’s power does not license sexual privilege. • Dignity and respect upheld for both parties. Supporting Scriptures that echo these standards • 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4 — God’s will is sanctification and avoiding sexual immorality. • Hebrews 13:4 — Marriage bed kept pure, for God judges sexual sin. • 1 Timothy 5:2 — Younger women treated as sisters, in all purity. • Job 31:1 — Covenant with the eyes to guard against lust. • Proverbs 6:27-29 — Warning against illicit intimacy. • 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 — Bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit; glorify God. Practical takeaways for today • Beauty and attraction must stay within God-ordained limits. • Caregiving roles require heightened vigilance for moral integrity. • Position, age, or circumstance never nullify God’s call to holiness. • Respecting another’s dignity guards both souls from temptation. • Self-control, empowered by the Spirit, is attainable and expected. |