How can Song of Solomon 7:11 inspire intentional time with your spouse? Setting the Verse in Front of Us “Come, my beloved, let us go to the countryside; let us spend the night in the villages.” (Songs 7:11) What Stands Out in the Invitation • “Come, my beloved” – a warm, personal call; affection is verbalized. • “Let us go” – the initiative is shared; togetherness is intentional. • “To the countryside… the villages” – change of scenery; away from routine and distractions. • “Spend the night” – unhurried time; lingering presence, not a quick errand. Why Intentional Getaways Matter • They model Genesis 2:24—leaving ordinary rhythms to cleave and become “one flesh.” • Jesus drew His disciples aside for rest (Mark 6:31); marriages need similar rhythms. • Regular, planned time fends off drift (1 Corinthians 7:3-5) and nurtures delight, not duty. Practical Ways to Live Out the Verse 1. Schedule mini-retreats – One night at a nearby B&B or family cabin. – Budget in advance; simplicity over extravagance. 2. Change the scenery even at home – Backyard firepit, picnic in a local park, rooftop dinner. – Phones off, eyes on each other. 3. Create anticipatory language – Use “Come, my beloved…” texts to build expectancy. – Verbally affirm the desire to be together. 4. Guard the time – Treat it like a sacred appointment; decline competing invitations. – Enlist help for childcare or household tasks. 5. Focus on presence, not projects – Unplug from screens. – Simple conversation starters: “What’s been life-giving for you this week?” – Enjoy shared hobbies: hiking, stargazing, board games. Fruit You Can Expect • Renewed affection—words and touch flow more naturally (Songs 1:2). • Deepened understanding—listening without hurry surfaces hidden hopes. • Strengthened unity—shared memories become anchors during stress. • Refreshed spiritual life—time away creates space for prayer, Scripture, and gratitude together (Ephesians 5:25-27). Next Step Checklist □ Look at calendars tonight and block one getaway date within the next six weeks. □ Brainstorm low-cost, close-to-home options. □ Each spouse list one thing that would make the time special; compare lists and plan accordingly. □ Pray individually for God to bless the time, then watch Him honor the intentionality. |
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