Jeremiah 35:14 & Eph 6:1: Parental honor?
How does Jeremiah 35:14 connect with Ephesians 6:1 on honoring parental guidance?

Setting the Scene in Jeremiah 35

Jeremiah 35 recounts the visit of the prophet to the Rechabites, descendants of Jonadab son of Rechab.

• Jonadab had ordered his family never to drink wine, build houses, sow seed, or plant vineyards—choosing a nomadic life (Jeremiah 35:6–7).

• When Jeremiah set wine before them, they refused: “We will drink no wine, for Jonadab son of Rechab, our forefather, commanded us…” (Jeremiah 35:6).

• God highlights their steadfast obedience in Jeremiah 35:14:

“The words of Jonadab son of Rechab have been carried out; he commanded his sons not to drink wine, and they have not drunk wine to this day, for they have obeyed their ancestor’s command. But I have spoken to you again and again, and yet you have not obeyed Me!”


Ephesians 6:1—The Timeless Call

“Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.” (Ephesians 6:1)

• Paul grounds obedience in two realities: it is “in the Lord” and it is inherently “right.”

• The verse echoes Exodus 20:12, showing continuity between Old Testament law and New Testament instruction.


Key Parallels Between the Rechabites and Ephesians 6:1

• Both passages highlight children who honor a parental command across generations.

• The Rechabites’ obedience is voluntary and enduring; Paul calls for willing, ongoing obedience “in the Lord.”

• God uses the Rechabites as an object lesson: if human children can obey a human father steadfastly, how much more should Israel—and, by extension, believers—obey their heavenly Father.

• The principle: honoring earthly parents trains hearts to honor God’s ultimate authority.


Why God Commends Obedience to Parents

• Parental authority is delegated authority; honoring it honors God (Romans 13:1; Hebrews 12:9).

• Obedience cultivates discipline, humility, and faithfulness—traits essential for spiritual growth (Proverbs 1:8–9; Colossians 3:20).

• God promises blessing: “so that your days may be long in the land” (Exodus 20:12). The Rechabites received a perpetual promise: “Jonadab son of Rechab will never fail to have a man to stand before Me” (Jeremiah 35:19).


Practical Takeaways for Us

• View parental instructions as training grounds for deeper submission to God.

• Teach children that their obedience is not merely familial but spiritual—“in the Lord.”

• Parents should model integrity, as Jonadab did; consistent godliness makes obedience easier.

• Remember that faithful obedience, even in seemingly minor matters (like abstaining from wine), bears lasting witness and invites divine commendation.

What lessons can we learn from the Rechabites' faithfulness to their father's command?
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