Joab's plan: human vs. divine wisdom?
How does Joab's plan in 2 Samuel 14:2 demonstrate human wisdom versus God's wisdom?

Setting the Scene

2 Samuel 14 opens with David estranged from Absalom for the murder of Amnon. Joab longs to mend the rift, not by seeking God but by engineering a clever ruse:

“Joab sent to Tekoa to bring a wise woman from there. He said to her, ‘Please act like a mourner; wear mourning apparel and do not anoint yourself with oil. Be like a woman who has spent many days mourning for the dead.’” (2 Samuel 14:2)


Joab’s Strategy: Marks of Human Wisdom

• Uses manipulation rather than prayer

• Crafts a theatrical story to sway emotions

• Aims at reconciliation but bypasses justice (Absalom’s blood-guilt, cf. Numbers 35:30–31)

• Relies on secrecy: David is kept unaware of Joab’s hand behind the “widow”

• Short-term success: Absalom is recalled (vv. 21–23) yet future disaster brews (15:1–6)

Human wisdom often:

1. Values appearances over substance (Matthew 23:27)

2. Seeks quick fixes instead of heart change (Jeremiah 17:9)

3. Ignores God’s law when inconvenient


God’s Wisdom: A Different Character

“Wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere.” (James 3:17)

Key contrasts:

• Purity versus deception

• Justice joined to mercy (Psalm 89:14) versus mercy at justice’s expense

• Openness versus hidden motives (1 Chronicles 28:9)

• Long-range blessing versus short-range relief (Proverbs 16:25)


Two Parables, Two Sources

• Nathan’s lamb story (2 Samuel 12:1–7) – God-sent, exposes sin, brings repentance.

• Tekoa woman’s tale (14:4–20) – Joab-sent, conceals sin, avoids repentance.

Same literary form, opposite moral trajectory.


Consequences of Each Path

Human wisdom (Joab):

– Absalom returns unrepentant.

– Seeds of rebellion sprout, costing thousands of lives (ch. 15-18).

God’s wisdom (Nathan):

– David repents, receives forgiveness, though discipline follows.

– Relationship with God restored; royal line preserved (7:13-16).


Lessons for Today

• A plan may appear “wise” when it achieves a desired outcome, yet if truth and righteousness are compromised, it is folly (1 Corinthians 1:25).

• Emotional appeal is no substitute for obedience to God’s revealed will (Deuteronomy 17:18-20).

• Seek reconciliation God’s way: confession, repentance, and justice coupled with mercy (1 John 1:9; Micah 6:8).

• Discern motives behind counsel; even “wise” advisers can steer us from God’s path (Proverbs 13:20).

Joab’s clever plot showcases the limits of human wisdom; only God’s wisdom, anchored in truth and holiness, leads to lasting peace and blessing.

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