What does John 11:19 teach about community in times of grief? The Verse in Context “Now many of the Jews had come to Martha and Mary to comfort them concerning their brother.” (John 11:19) Key Observations • Grief drew the community together—“many” came, not just a few. • Their purpose was clear: “to comfort” Martha and Mary. • The comfort was offered before Jesus arrived or the miracle occurred; support was not contingent on a solution. • The verb “had come” shows intentional movement toward the bereaved, not passive waiting for them to seek help. Biblical Themes on Shared Mourning • Mutual burden-bearing: “Carry one another’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.” (Galatians 6:2) • Weeping alongside sufferers: “Rejoice with those who rejoice; weep with those who weep.” (Romans 12:15) • Covenant solidarity: Job’s friends initially “sat on the ground with him seven days and seven nights” (Job 2:13)—an example of presence before speech. Principles for Christian Community 1. Intentional Presence – Show up; don’t wait to be asked. 2. Collective Support – Grief is lightened when shared by “many,” not left to a handful. 3. Ministry Before Solutions – Offer comfort even when answers or miracles are not yet visible. 4. Practical Consolation – Comfort includes listening ears, shared tears, meals prepared, errands run. 5. Hope-Anchored Encouragement – While John 11 culminates in resurrection, the comforters model compassion rooted in God’s promised hope (1 Thessalonians 4:13-14). Living It Out Together • Keep a mental or written list of grieving believers; schedule visits or calls. • Participate in corporate lament during worship services (Psalm 34:18). • Form meal trains and prayer chains that activate immediately after loss. • Encourage children and teens to send notes, learning early the value of presence. • Remember anniversaries of loss; return to comfort long after the funeral. |
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