What does "consider carefully what is before you" teach about discernment? Context and Background Proverbs 23:1–3: “When you sit down to dine with a ruler, consider carefully what is set before you, and put a knife to your throat if you have a big appetite. Do not crave his delicacies, for that food is deceptive.” • Solomon pictures a formal banquet with a powerful host. • In ancient courts, food often came with strings attached—political obligations, flattery, or subtle manipulation. • The command to “consider carefully” places responsibility on the guest to see beyond the menu and discern the motives behind it. What “Consider Carefully” Means • The Hebrew verb translates “give diligent attention” or “discern intelligently.” • It calls for mental alertness, not casual glancing. • Discernment begins before the first bite: weigh the situation, read the room, and evaluate unseen costs. Discernment Lessons from the Verse • Influence can be hidden in attractive packages; scrutiny protects you from compromise. • Appetite—literal or figurative—can dull spiritual perception; self-control keeps judgment clear. • Not every opportunity is from God; wisdom refuses entanglements that threaten integrity. • Discernment is proactive: it steps back, thinks, and prays before engaging. Supporting Scriptures • Proverbs 14:15—“The naive believe every word, but the prudent give thought to their steps.” • 1 Thessalonians 5:21—“But test all things; hold fast to what is good.” • Philippians 1:9–10—“that you may approve the things that are excellent.” • Ephesians 5:15–17—“Be very careful how you walk…understand what the Lord’s will is.” Everyday Application • When offered favors, promotions, or partnerships, pause and weigh motives and consequences. • Guard appetites—ambition, comfort, acclaim—so they do not steer decisions. • Seek Scripture and godly counsel before signing agreements or accepting invitations. • Cultivate a habit of quiet reflection with God; discernment grows where the heart stays attentive. |
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