What can we learn from Esther's approach to making requests in Esther 5:6? The Scene in Shushan Esther 5:6: “As they drank wine, the king asked Esther, ‘What is your petition? It shall be granted to you. And what is your request? Even up to half the kingdom, it will be fulfilled.’ ” What Stands Out in Esther’s Method • Careful Preparation – Days of fasting and prayer preceded her audience (4:16). • Respectful Relationship-Building – Two banquets softened the king’s heart before she spoke. • Humble, Courteous Language – She addresses him as “If it pleases the king” (5:8). • Strategic Timing – She waits until she senses openness; she does not rush. • Confidence in God’s Sovereignty – Her calmness reflects trust that “the king’s heart is a watercourse in the hand of the LORD” (Proverbs 21:1). Principles We Can Apply Today • Bathe important requests in prayer and even fasting. • Build genuine rapport; people respond to relationship, not manipulation. • Speak with honor to those in authority; God values respectful speech. • Choose moments of receptivity instead of forcing an issue. • Trust God to guide hearts and outcomes once you have done your part. Supporting Scriptures for Further Reflection • Proverbs 25:11: “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.” • James 1:19: “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger.” • Colossians 4:6: “Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.” • Philippians 4:6: “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” |
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