Lessons from Esther's requests to king?
What can we learn from Esther's approach to making requests before the king?

Setting the Scene: Esther 5:7

“Esther answered, ‘This is my request and my petition:’ ”


Waiting for the Right Moment

• She delayed her plea through two banquets (5:4-8), letting God prepare hearts (Proverbs 25:15).

• Patience is discernment of God’s timing (Ec 3:1).


Humble Speech and Respectful Address

• Begins, “If I have found favor…” (5:8; 7:3).

• Mirrors Genesis 18:27; commanded in 1 Peter 2:17.

• Humility invites a receptive ear.


Clarity and Brevity

• Simple appeal: “spare my people” (7:3-4).

• Ec 5:2—fewer words, greater weight.

• Clear requests respect the listener and show confidence.


Courage Rooted in Faith

• Enters after fasting and prayer (4:16).

Hebrews 4:16—approach God’s throne boldly.

• Trust, not bravado, fuels courage (Proverbs 21:1).


Intercession for Others

• Pleads for her people, not herself (7:3).

• Echoes Moses (Exodus 32:11-14) and Paul (Romans 9:3).

Philippians 2:4—look to others’ interests.


Dependence on Providence

• The king’s sleepless night (6:1) reveals God’s unseen hand.

Psalm 33:18-19—He watches those who fear Him.

• Act faithfully, rest in His control.


Practical Takeaways

• Prepare spiritually before speaking.

• Wait for providential openings.

• Address authority with genuine respect.

• State requests plainly.

• Let love for others drive petitions.

• Trust God for outcomes; He turns hearts and orchestrates events.

How does Esther 5:7 demonstrate the importance of patience in God's timing?
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