What can we learn from Zophar's approach to addressing Job's suffering? Setting the Scene Job 11:1: “Then Zophar the Naamathite replied.” What Zophar’s Opening Tells Us • He cannot wait any longer; he must speak. • He enters when emotions are raw—yet offers no comfort. • His very position in the dialogue (third friend) suggests rising frustration: previous arguments failed, so he will be harder. Patterns We Notice Immediately 1. Quick to respond, slow to listen (cf. James 1:19). 2. Addresses Job’s theology before addressing Job’s tears (cf. Romans 12:15). 3. Possesses facts about God but lacks the heart of God (cf. 1 Corinthians 13:2). Scripture’s Counter-Counsel • Proverbs 18:13—Answering before hearing is folly. • Proverbs 15:23—A timely word brings joy; mistimed truth wounds. • Ephesians 4:29—Words must build up; Zophar’s will tear down. • Galatians 6:1—Correction is gentle; his will be scathing. Practical Lessons for Today • Listen first; speak later. • Offer presence before prescription. • Blend doctrine with compassion. • Check motives: am I defending God or helping a sufferer? • Let every word aim to echo Christ’s heart, not Zophar’s haste. |
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